I actually DO read profiles.
Since POF decided they wanted to change things up and I can no longer see who wants to meet me, just send me a quick message, doesn't have to be flashy, or (please) not a long story. I'll either reply or I won't, you won't know till you try.
Describing myself is hard, So I really just have to go with what friends have perceived of me. I'm easy going, laid back, easy to get along with. I'll go with the flow of things if for nothing else but the experience of whatever it is going on.
I enjoy sitting back and watching movies, sitting at some sort of lounge ish atmosphere and having a drink and talking with friends. I enjoy live music and sitting out by the water and watching the city lights reflect off the water.
I can be stubborn and sometimes hard headed. I can be a huge smart ass when I'm comfortable with those around me and I feel they will understand my humor.
People seem to like me, so I guess I must be doing something right, right? I usually get along with most people I come across.
It's hard to judge someone on here to decided whether or not you two might be compatible or not. I'm not very good at "approaching" others on here, and it seems like a lot are not looking for anything serious, or are looking for a 3rd. I'm not looking to be an addition to someone's relationship. I want to actually find someone whom I feel my feelings with them may grow. I'm not talking about u hauling it or anything, but I'm not looking for something casual, or something just for fun. I want to really get to know you.
Feel free to message me, the worst that could happen is I don't respond for a period of time.
Let's talk, get to know each other. I want to hear what you have to say, I want to get an understanding for who you are. Obviously, as much as I enjoy a night at the club, I'm not going to be able to hear much of what you say there.