I don't do labels... however, so people are not mistaken, I'm definitely NOT a femme, but I'm not exactly butch either. I don't like to conform to the "gender rolls" people like to dish out. I'm just me, and I'm comfortable being who I am, but don't ever expect me to be in a dress or to do my face all up in makeup.
As much as I'm searching for that special someone, I'm also looking for friends, this site just doesn't seem to let me choose both, it's one or the other.
You can't please everyone. Just be yourself and if people like you, at least they like you for you. If they don't, then at least the situation is not fake. I put up with a lot of things, and feel I have a good degree of patience. I care about the people in my life and those who are no longer in my life. I try to at least enjoy myself in whatever situation I have been put in, whether it's with those I like or those I don't. I like to find the humor in every situation, even if it's one that hurts or makes me angry. I feel that humor heals, and it gives you reasons to smile. And everyone looks good with a smile.
A SMILE, not a duck bill.
I fine with just chilling and watching movies, ordering take out or cooking a meal, and I'm fine with going out, seeing some odd attraction, a movie, a park, a show, whatever, I'll try it once at least. I like to game, but I know how turn of the computer or put down the controller and pay attention to those around me. I game mainly because I have friends in other states and for many of them this is my only way of hanging out with them and feeling some closeness. Yes I mean actual friends I have seen and hung out with, who have been there for me through dark times and who mean a lot to me.
I find modesty grand, and morals becoming. In other words, you could be the most beautiful woman in the world, but when I scroll through your pictures and I see pictures of you in your underwear, or nothing, well... it's like planning my own surprise party. If all you got to say is how awesome you are, well... you're too awesome for me, I like a girl with flaws. I want a girl who has no problem admitting she trips on her own feet, who can laugh at herself and just have a good time in any situation.
One more thing.. be able to spell. You don't have to be perfect, but purposefully misspelling your words does not make me think you are cute. It makes me think you paid no attention in school.
You want to know more? Ask. Hell message me, worst that will happen is I don't respond in time or at all, but at least you try, and that's what matters.