I actually DO read profiles.
Describing myself is hard, So I really just have to go with what friends have perceived of me. I'm easy going, laid back, easy to get along with. I'll go with the flow of things if for nothing else but the experience of whatever it is going on. I'm not fem, nor do I consider myself butch, my preference is non label. I don't believe in gender roles nor the fem/ butch conformation. I'll clean, cook, do laundry, wash the car, change my oil, get under the hood and learn to work on whatever needs done, pull my computer apart and change out a card or memory stick, sit back play a video game, put together a TV stand, whatever. I love putting things together, I love puzzles. I'm an adult but I'm not itching to be old and in the nursing home watching daytime TV.
I enjoy sitting back and watching movies, sitting at some sort of lounge ish atmosphere and having a drink and talking with friends. The simple things, the beautiful things people overlook and take for granted.
I can be stubborn and sometimes hard headed. I can be a huge smart ass when I'm comfortable with those around me and I feel they will understand my humor.
It's hard to judge someone on here to decided whether or not you two might be compatible or not. I'm not very good at "approaching" others on here, and it seems like a lot are not looking for anything serious, or are looking for a 3rd. I'm not looking to be an addition to someone's relationship. I want to actually find someone whom I feel my feelings with them may grow. I'm not talking about u hauling it or anything, but I'm not looking for something casual, or something just for fun. I want to really get to know you. I do find myself attracted to women with medium to long hair, on the rare occasion I have found myself attracted to women with shorter hair. I dunno, it's a thing. I've dated both, but love hair I can run my fingers through.
If you're really all about the "I'm a boi" "I'm a gentleman" thing, or "I'm a fem, so do everything for me" thing, I'm not. I'm all about "we both do for each other" thing. Like I said, I'm not into the whole gender role thing, I just like women.
Feel free to message me, the worst that could happen is I don't respond for a period of time.
Let's talk, get to know each other. I want to hear what you have to say, I want to get an understanding for who you are. Obviously, as much as I enjoy a night at the club, I'm not going to be able to hear much of what you say there.