Apparently I need to explain my choices in words. First, aren't they supposed to grab your attention and be memorable if they're a headline and a name? Perhaps a little creative, mysterious, and fun? Being in the education field, my world includes "fill-in-the-blank" worksheets. My life is good, but if I have the missing parts or blanks "filled-in", then it will be great. A complete sentence. Things like quality conversation, adventure, and a relationship. Of course, do to the nature of online dating and man kind, other connotations of "fill in my blanks" probably came to mind more readily. Let's just say that one of my main "5 Love Languages" happens to be touch.
I WORK HARD. Always been known for a strong work ethic and initiative. My days are draining and long. Frankly, after spending my days with women and kids, and being a good Mom to my own 4th and 6th grade girls, I need male. When I have free time, mostly on weekends, then I PLAY HARD. I will not let life pass me by because I'm alone. So, yes, I go out by myself. Having good company would definitely make it more fun, dynamic, and sometimes, safer. My interests are varied, and always growing because I like to learn and try new things. I can sleep in and have a great breakfast on the patio, to bike riding, to going to the symphony, to going out 2-stepping, all in one day! My local bucket list includes trying out zip lines, handgun and archery ranges, new restaurants, Retama, live bands, and kayaking. Have a new passport in need of attention too. Lastly, DO HARD. Lots of thoughts on this one, ha! Intimacy is good. Let's leave it at that.
There are Plenty of Fish on here that work hard. Most fish are after "do hard" only it seems. Isn't there a fish capable of all three--work, play, and do hard? Isn't there a fish that values their work, is well-rounded, and likes good kissin'? Beginning to wonder...
My ideal guy would be clean-cut, taller and bigger than me, and definitely a non-smoker. I'm attracted to a man that is confident, combines brain with brawn, and has learned from diverse life experiences. A guy that can "talk" or hold their own socially is a must. A man that has their life "together" and has expectations of life is a plus. I'm attracted to men that are hard-working, responsible, and driven. Being handy is always appreciated. I want a man's man to a degree--an intellectual cultured bad boy--yet a gentlemen that can support, respect, appreciate, and pleasure a good woman. Does this make sense? Is all this possible? I need a man that likes a challenge. If he "dishes" it out, then he must be able to handle me "dishing it" back. I'm up for adventure, and don't mind a little dirt. I'll have to explain that one in person! Look forward to hearing from you...and learning how I can fill in YOUR blanks. :)
Prefer men from about 35-53 years old. 5'10" to about 6'4". Average/Athletic built. Caucasian/Hispanic/Other. Single/Divorced/Never Married.
Why is that guys expect us ladies to have lots of half-naked, whole body pics on our profiles, but then think ball caps and sunglasses in one shoulder pic are OK for us ladies? Or even better yet, no pic? Either GEAR UP and fish, or stay in the bait basket. This is POF! PlayOrFail with me.