all i can say is be honest an drama free an know who u r first!!! no games an no im not on here to get laid so please dont ask. i have 2 grown sons who hold my heart an world they will always come before anyone or any thing in my life!!i love sports football is the aultimit!! STEELERS & CHARGERS!!! im a big tomboy but can clean up sweet!! i do love tattoos an pierceing i do have a few of each.i also love to ride its good way to clear your head an enjoy the day or night with a ride threw the mountains or alone the coast line, i miss the wind threw my hair!!i like long walks on the beach with the right someone. im really not looking for my last first kiss.but the kiss of a life time!! any who , always be prepared with a great an noble death song for the day you finally cross over the great divide!! _--- that saying was ment for a friend of mine who passed away.i am relizeing more an more how bad this site can be...everyone is looking for the perfect barbie,centerfold model type an no one is honest about it....i know who i am an its a very strong an independant women with a heart. but alas just like my head line reads....never judge a book by its cover but alot of men do an in the end there loss!!! how can u know who someone is based on how they look...i could look like a center fold but in real be a serial killer how do u really know, u judge by looks first....judgement is the cruelist way to see people. this is fully only my opinion here. take it for what its worth.....(yes i know u need to be attracted to someone too).but does it always have to be the attraction of looks ?? :/ an no im not bitter im just saying what i keep seeing alot of . please be real an only serioues need say hi....im just curioues here some..why is it faling enlove a second time is very, hard to do??