First off, I'm 47 not 42. I did this for obvious reasons: most men are ageists when it comes to dating.
And YES every, single pic here is current and an accurate depiction! ;)
I want to meet my match. Someone who gets me, knows me inside and out - and can accept my flaws as I would his. We all need a partner we can lean on. I was raised by two awesome parents/role models, and know what a good relationship is. I want the same for myself.
When I see a man I'm attracted to really smiling from the depth of his heart, it fills me with pleasure. Nothing is sexier than seeing someone you care about having pleasure, and when they share that pleasure with you, it's pretty impossible not to feel deeply for them.
I can't stand a person who doesn't have a sense of humor. Without it life would be unbearable.
I couldn't live in a world without music and books. It's pretty important that you know that about me.
I'm financially, emotionally and physically secure in myself, and I am looking for the same in a potential partner.
I enjoy live music, museums, traveling and spending quality time with my two bulldogs. I've plenty of other interests, but I'm not going to go on and on, because I'm pretty sure you'll only send a message if you like my photos. Let's face it: without chemistry there can be no beginning in terms of building a relationship.
Good luck here, everyone. I hope we all find what we seek.
Note: If you are lacking in good communicative skills, please don't send a message. I'm not a good fit with any one who can only type, "Hi" and then hit the send button. Oh, and although it's extremely flattering if you add me to your "favorites", I would far prefer a message. ;) Have an AWESOME day!