Bigheartedcali: You are supposed to make me delete my profile.
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
New albany, Indiana
37 year old Female, 5' 6" (168cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Taurus
Bigheartedcali is looking for a relationship.
Associates Degree
Free Thinker
Safety Girl - Construction

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 5 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Cat Second Language English

About Me
I just turned 36 and I am not 37! Life goes fast enough as it is. :) I am tired with this massive disappointment of POF men. I am frustrated with giving & trying to open my heart/mind and give 90% to their 10%. The whole game of lies, cheating, lingering ex - girlfriends and needy men requiring multiple woman to find not my thing. Ive been played & Ive been the player, I have no time for that crap. Yes, I am picky and no, I won't settle. I have been on this site before but off for close to 2 years. I keep getting emails from the totally wrong type of person so I figure I would preface first off what I am NOT looking for. If you belong to the shirtless mafia “look at my body” picture club, I’m not interested. I try and stay active & in shape & would like the same back. However, Im more apt to pick the snuggly, tall, strong teddybear before tje rock hard six pack! If your profile pictures are super old and don’t really show what you look like, I'm not interested. If you are over mid 40's, I'm not interested. If you are married and hiding from your wife or hooked on your ex-girlfriend and looking for a distraction, no thanks. I am not mean or stuck-up but why waste my time or yours. I am divorced and a mom to 2 wonderful boys under 10. I have learned with dating that a man with kid(s) is more likely to mesh with me, my schedule & relate to the responsibilities of being a (single) parent.

- I am not looking for a random booty call; getting laid is the easy part. I am looking for a relationship and one person to focus on and get to know, do fun things, etc... Perhaps, I can find my "romantic partner-in-crime" although I am content to be alone.

- I’m not perfect & I am not looking for Mr. Perfect. How about we start with normal? I'm a bit of a stubborn-ass, free-spirit, bad girl reformed, sarcastic, big-hearted, quiet & shy at times, goofy and fun mostly, a good mom, nature lover, beach soul sister, creative artist who loves to paint/make jewelry/play guitar, pragmatic, spastic & romantic. (Did you get all that?) :) I'd like to find a semi-old fashioned guy with manners, morals, open minded and non-judgmental. I do carry myself w/ class but I'm a little rough around the edges also. Yes, I do have tattoos and no, that is not requirement but there is no need to write me if my ink offends you. I would like to think I could find that bad boy turned good....hard to explain. I'm a beach girl at heart & moved to Southern IN from San Diego 6 years ago. I spent 18 years growing up on Clearwater Beach. I love anything outdoors, playing with my kids, visiting friends & family, camping, hiking, live music, Yoga, movies, local sports, festivals, traveling, boating and I admit...I love motorcycles and want to learn to ride. I hit 3 rally's last year and truly had the most fun I have had in a long time!

First Date
- Something casual, in public, meet for a drink & talk to see if you can make me laugh and/or if there is any face-to-face connection. If you can't craft more than a "hi, I'm your man" or "pick me, I can rock your world"... you should probably move on to the next search result. It would be nice to find a man who actually will read even 1/2 of what I wrote and not send me an email how "I wrote a book.” :)

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Age between 30 and 45.
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