Taking a new approach with my profile... So many of the profiles are people just writing what they think people want to hear, either because they aren't sure what to put, or they are trying to cover up the fact that they are complete freaks. Haha My first attempt was probably along those lines, because of the unsure what to write part that is.. So, it is time to rewrite it. I am not sure if it really matters, because so many people make their decisions on a picture and skip the profile or delete an email without even reading it anyway.
I am a Dad to two great kids, which I have 50% of the time. It goes without saying that they are the most important thing in the world to me. So, you may ask why I said it, because I want to use that to stress that if you have kids and they are not the most important thing to you, you aren't for me.
So, if you made it past my pictures, which I realized I don't have many since I am the one taking them most of the time, and are actually reading my profile Kudos to you.
OK, enough with the seriousness, and a little about me. I am pretty laid back by nature. I am sarcastic a lot of the time and get along best with someone who can take a little good natured teasing. If you do something silly, you can fully expect to hear about it. And, yes I not only take teasing in return well, but I appreciate it. So, bring it on! I love to enjoy a wide variety of music, and love catching bands live. I especially like little places like BBs or Broadway Oyster Bar. I also like nice quiet nights at home curled up together on the couch.
I know I will lose points for this, but hey, I said I wasn't worried about writing what people want to hear, so here goes... I am not a dancer. I will slow dance occasionally. But you wont find me shaken my rump to house music. That doesn't mean I care if you to dance. Get out on the dance floor and go crazy with your friends. I will be quite content, kicking back with a drink and people watching, which is always entertaining. I enjoy cooking, catching a live sporting event, or just having people over to entertain for a low key night of hanging by the pool or fire pit.
I recently decided it is time to get back into shape. I have started to work my way back to being able to honestly check that athletic and toned box for body type. 15 lbs down, but more to go.
I hope to find a woman to laugh a lot with, and share both the good and bad that goes hand in hand with life. She should be honest, loyal and trustworthy. Those values are huge with me, and you can be assured I give those back in a relationship. I would hope she has a bit of "piss and vinegar" in her, as my grand pappy used to say. And if you are unfamiliar with that term it means they have a youthful energy abut them and a bit of a crazy side. I figured I'd explain what that meant, so you didn't think I was some complete freak.
Well I have rambled on enough. If you made it this far, thanks for reading and good luck in your search.
Low pressure, casual meeting. Maybe a few drinks or coffee. So, if either party is not into the other there is no long awkward event planned. If it goes well. Something a little more creative can be planned for the second date. I also think it is always considerate to follow up after a date to see how both parties felt it went. That way, no one is left wondering.