Hello I'm Tony,
I have decided to take a little break in a sense concerning being the first one to contact a potential date. I have found that if a woman really wants to get to know you they will definitely let you know! This isn't a big secret as I have observed this all of my life...even in grade school where one time this girl came up to me( prettiest girl in the class BTW ;-) ) and said bluntly "I like you!". I liked her too but didn't have a clue until she said something! lol So if you find that after reading my profile that I may be someone you would like to learn more about then please by all means let me know. If I am interested as well then I will contact you and we can take it from there.
I am home and so glad to be back in Indiana!
I was on a job in Kosovo for two years and that little adventure is over. I was hoping to find love over there but that just didn't happen.
I have also done some soul searching in the last couple of years and I honestly do not believe I will be living in Indiana too much longer. The winters wear on me more and more as the years go by. With my kids nearly grown I will probably start splitting my living time between Indiana and most likely Florida. I have been looking into and researching where I would fit in best. Once established I would slowly transition completely to Florida or?
OK with that said......
Like many of you on here I never thought I would find myself dating at my age. It is what it is though and I will make the best of it. My goal is to hopefully find a few great women to date,enjoy good times and have fun with. If one of those relationships turns into something more then I would not be opposed to having an exclusive relationship. I have a lot of love to give the right woman if she comes along.
I am 5'3" on a GOOD day,stocky build,approximately 155 lbs.. If you are looking for Mr. Tall,Dark and Handsome...um-mm yeah....he's a couple profiles down from here! ;-) I do not smoke and prefer to date non-smokers as well. I will on occasion drink socially with friends. I have tried to take care of myself physically and would hope that the woman I'm dating would feel the same about her physical well being.
I desire a woman that is attractive,independent,intelligent and witty with a dash of common sense thrown in. She should have her own career,place to live,life goals and if she has them love for her children above all else. I want to be the guy that compliments her life not the guy that complicates it.
I work a full time job in Law Enforcement/Security and have been in that job field since 2000. I was also a member of an elite tactical response team for the State of Indiana Department of Corrections for many years. That experience is what inspired me to go into contract security work.
My career goals are very important,but so is wanting to share my spare time with my kids and a special someone in my life. I have joint custody of my Son 16. I also have a 18 and a 22 year old Daughters that live in my home in Indiana which makes me very happy to know they are "home" and safe there.
I like to travel and explore new places when I can,especially short day trip on a motorcycle. I love going to flea markets,thrift stores,auctions,antique shops etc. and finding that rare gem that catches my eye. I love old cars and motorcycles as well as attending auto/motorcycle shows. I am currently working on building a custom,Harley Sportster 883 powered Pro-Street chopper that I intend to ride the wheels off of when it's done! I'm into adrenaline rushes,roller coasters,amusement parks,rappelling,tactical training,motorcycles etc..
I want to thank you for taking the time to view my profile. If there is anything more you would like to know about me please ask. If by chance you know right from the start we are not a match and will never actually meet in person please be respectful of my time. I am on here to actually meet and date not chat endlessly over the Internet. Besides let's be honest 99.9% of you know within two minutes of meeting a guy if you want them and will let them know. So lets play by big boy and big girl rules shall we.
P.S......I'm not really a Fashionista....I do well to wear the same color socks most of the time!!! ;-)