Recent graduate who is looking to start the first chapter of the second half of her life and hopeful that I can enter the second chapter with someone special by my side.
I am a SWF with a few extra pounds looking for someone about the same to work on ourselves together. I believe that positive things come from positive relationships and working and changing together creates and strengthens a relationship. I need this type of companionship and I am positive someone else does as well.
I am not looking for Mr. Muscle just Mr. Normal. A few extra pounds is OK with me.
IF YOU HAVE RECENT & CLEAR PICTURES, ARE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 47 AND 55, ARE A CAUCASIAN AMERICAN MAN OR A HISPANIC OR LATIN AMERICAN MAN, AND HOLD THE VALUES I DO, I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU.
(PLEASE NO MIDDLE EASTERN MEN OR AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN). I am not prejudice, simply realistic.
I have, love, and look for:
A will to succeed, adventure, animals, camping, challenge, clear water beaches, commitment, communication, competition, concerts, creativity, discovery, education, exploring the world, faith, family, freedom, giving to others, hard work, honesty, honor, hugs, humor, imagination, independence, individuality, inner strength, Jamaica, loyalty, music, outdoors, privacy, rational romantic impulsiveness and creativity, Reggae music, resourcefulness, road trips, sake bombers, self-discipline, self-reliance, the 2nd amendment, trying new things, white wine.
In addition, I am not much of a drinker (strictly social), I do not do drugs, and I am VERY open-minded. Let's start with a few dates, I am open to a relationship if it is right.
In closing I will leave you with two special quotes to consider.
Never settle for a situation or a person that does not make you happy. It is never too late to change your life, envision a better future, and take a few chances. Most important, there are no mistakes in life only learning experiences. Although some experiences are harder than others it is always the hard lessons that make you stronger, smarter, and if accepted as learning experiences a better person. ~ Quigley
All relationships are “unfinished business.” Relationships are never settled, never fixed once and for all. Always, continuously, they are moving to new places and dealing with new issues. Change, then, is a primary dynamic of intimacy—one that is normal and ongoing in relational life. ~Duck
I think a first meeting should be on even ground, a place that is casual, calm, public, and has public seating to sit and talk. A place that is also slightly activity based, where an individual is comfortable being themselves. A place where there are options such as window shopping, walking, drinking coffee, or watching a movie. And most important, a place that allows for two people to peacefully go their separate ways if it is not what was expected, no harm no foul.