I'm beginning to feel like a goldfish in a bowl on this site. Lot's of people looking at me while I'm looking out but no one stopping to say hi. I don't bite, I promise...
I believe in honesty, integrity and respect. I have a job, a house and a car.
I don't like confrontation or arguing. But I will speak my mind. Communication is very important to me.
I don't do "needy" or "possessive" or "drama".
I am comfortable and secure in my own skin and I like myself...
(if you don't have a good relationship with yourself, you can't have a good relationship with someone else).
I'm no Barbie Doll and don't want to be...just like to be me.
I have been widowed 3 years now and find coming home to just my dog a bit lonely. (although he is a great pal and doesn't take the tv remote away LOL)
I would like to find a wonderful, caring man to spend time with and hopefully build a lasting relationship. I'm not hung up on looks. I am more interested in whether you are secure with yourself.
Aside from my dog, I like to read or just relax, spend time with my teenage kids who live with their dad or hang out with friends. I love BBQs and cooking. I like to have fun and laugh. I enjoy outdoor activities. I like to walk in the rain (not cold rain). I enjoy road trips to nowhere with no particular plan in mind. I like lots of different music but mostly classic rock. I love to can and preserve food. I would have a garden if I had more time to take care of it.
I love Harley's and 4 wheel drives. (neither of which I have at the moment lol)
Yes, I smoke... trying to quit. (A stressful job does not make it easy.)
I would be happy to share more about myself...just ask!
... We are all a little weird and
life's a little weird,
And when we find someone whose
weirdness is compatible with ours, we
join up with them and fall in
mutual weirdness and call it love.
- Dr. Seuss -
... a public place where both parties are comfortable and we can get to know each other to see if there is any chemistry... then, hopefully, we can decide on another date.