Here's the story of Ms. Average Online Dating Woman;
One day, Ms. AODW got frustrated with dating players, douches, broken guys and cheaters. So she came on here, created her profile stating things such as "i want honesty, a guy who knows how to treat a woman, loves to laugh, love to travel, love tattoos, not looking for hookups...." Etc. So she uploads pics of herself, some bathroom selfies some mirror pics. Even though she doesnt want to see guys do that, its okay for her to! Anyways, she clicks on "Women 35 to 43 pls" Immediate assumptions based on past experiences rush through her head..... "Well this guy is a PLAYER. Clearly just wants to get laid. Like what a douche. He'll judge me, point out my flaws and wont appreciate me. He gets tons of girls. Guys dont dress nice, take care of their appearance, own a place, save their $, makes albums on their own in which they write play and record it all themselves, or want to settle down with an older woman since they're more mature and have their life structured!! What a liar!!" So she reads and deletes his thoughtful msg which catered to all her likes.
So after ignoring 12 of these msgs, all from great guys like "women 35 to 43 pls", after talking to a few for 4 msgs back n forth and disappearing, after txting with 3 guys then disappearing and after agreeing to meet 2 then selling them both out and disappearing.....she decides to msg the complete opposite type of guy she thinks she wants; the out of shape, rude, thoughtless msg from a guy who has nothing going for him but gets her thinking...."well this guy will appreciate me, he wont try to change me, he wont point out my flaws cause he has so many, i can help him and fix him!!!!" :):) So after going on 12 dates with guys that play her, cheat on her, used her for sex and lied to her, she decides to go back to pof and msg "Women 35 to 43 pls" figuring "Okay maybe this guy is legit." To her disappointment his profile is gone!! It turns out that one rare woman actually realized what a rare man he is, realized what he had going for him as a person and in his life, msgd HIM, let him know she was interested and ended up taking him for herself!!! Realizing her mistake, Ms. AODW called up Loser date #3,6 and 7 looking for attention since her self esteem dropped, Thinking she doesnt deserve any better......
Moral of the story; dont judge a book by its cover please. Treat your man right, or someone else will. Everyone assumes im a player. When in reality, I have ZERO women interested in anything with me, so im watching all these other unattractive, rude, slobs play all of you and get all your attention. Maybe YOU will give a guy like me a chance right away, instead of going through this brutal 3 yr process of dating losers!!
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