This was a conversation I had with someone from this site, offering me intuition on what goes on in a womans' head when it comes to profiles and pics like mine. Are the first 3 points actually thoughts going through your head about me?! Cause that's soooo not the case.....Thats NOT how I want to come across as. Neither is the rest of these points anything close to how I intend to come across as, nor is it how I actually am. If this is how I come across, it explains the lack of msgs I receive from anyone. Thoughts........
Also, if you're serious about meeting someone, you'll be on match and you'll find my serious writeup on there. Same name headline. Find me there!!
"Girls look at profile pic like yours and think "holy sh*t he's hot". This is immediately counteracted by the following self talk...
He's got a huge ego
He's probably a douche
He just wants to get laid
He won't like me cause I'm not stick thin
He'll point out all of my flaws and I'll feel shitty..
He'll laugh with his friends about me
He'll pressure me to become like him and I don't want to.
Why girls date guys who are less attractive is as follows, though I've learned that ugly guys are ***holes too....
He'll feel lucky to have me and treat me well
He won't cheat on me
I've accepted his flaws so he'll accept mine
He'll like me as I am
He won't try to change me
I don't have to feel guilty for not being perfect.
These are not my personal thoughts or beliefs though I have encountered some or all of this at one time or another with friends, Co workers, family, and girl talk in bar bathrooms...
Not sayin it's right..and I understand that there's good and bad in all walks of life in every economic class and in all people regardless of size or shape. But that's my insight for ya..."
Let's take a trip to AUSTRALIA!!! Er.....how bout we just talk in broken australian/slurred almost half british accents and just pretend we're there!!! I thought so too ;) Coffee dates just lead to an hr of figuring out that i'm gonna land in your friend zone in which there's no way out of lol. So no. Easiest way to see if there's chemistry.....bite n drinks!! If after a few drinks we still aren't attracted to eachother, then that clearly isn't a good sign lol. Ya i'll take care of the meet n' interview!!!