I am 51 and have 2 grown children, 27and 29. I am intelligent but can be a bit of an air head at times. When it counts, I am focused. My match would be successful, financially secure, independent, emotionally available and confident. A man who has his own interests but also wants to share time together, balanced with balanced ideas of what makes a relationship work. I believe attraction must be there in addition to having common beliefs and goals. Without physical attraction it is difficult in the best of times. I am generally attracted to people who are lighthearted and fun. They tend to bring out the less serious side of me.
Currently I live in Los Banos but my intention is to move to Sacramento where I spend most weekends. I will likely split my time between both places until I can completely figure the move out.