aartichokes: don't know what I am missing!
About
Non-Smoker with Average body type
City
Campbell, California
Details
63 year old Female, < 5' (< 152 cm), New age
Ethnicity
Asian, Libra
Intent
aartichokes is actively seeking a relationship.
Education
Some college
Personality
Design Snob
Profession
visual stylist







I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Not Ambitious
Pets No Pets  



About Me
Really, sincerely looking to meet someone who can become my best friend, ally and partner in crime, my go-to guy! I'm not trying to speak for everyone but I believe we all want to connect with a special someone. I am a true believer in love.

Enjoy the outdoors,being and staying fit, gardening, animals, nature, fashion, reading, finding ways to be creative, shopping, here and in foreign markets, travel and watching DVD's and movies. I have to admit, I am a bit of a smartass. I believe we all have a remarkable story of our lives, if we only take the time to listen.

A married friend of mine recently touched on something that really struck a chord in me....Suppose all of us who are "available and looking" make that more obvious in daily life. This friend observed me showing no interest whatsoever when an attractive gent was trying to make eye contact with yours truly. She scolded me for acting hard to get, and I thought about it and had to agree, maybe it was unintentional, but since then I have vowed to start opening myself up, become more approachable.I want to be more aware of what messages I send. I hope my self realization helps me, and I hope anyone reading this might see themselves as well! If we are all more observent, maybe we wouldnt need to be on POF....LOL

I will be happy to respond to a message rather than a flirt as I really do not understand what that is supposed to convey? Doesn't anyone want to really connect?

Would like to find someone who doesn't take himself too seriously, can laugh at himself. Smart, self confident, compassionate, empathic, not a picky eater lol!

I'd just like to add...
I am caregiver to my 92 year old mom, who has a memory of about 5 seconds. She may be a bit forgetful but she is spry, likes to go out to dinner, putter in the garden and sit in the sun. Simple pleasures make her happy. I think she is on to something!

First Date
Lets go hiking or take your dog for a walk...kayaking? Farmers market? Coffee?


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