First of all Id like to say my first choice of hobbies would be fishing,I've experienced fishing from the bank of the river ,where I could spend all day in one spot, knowing that in time that certain big one will bite at any time! From wanting to throw rocks at the passing drift boats and chasing them out of my favorite hole. Then on the other hand, to be in the drift boat and hogging up the best hole and totally pissing off the bankies! Theres nothing better than getting up early during deer season, to rush to the spot where you saw the big one the night before,but was to late to get a shot,and to see that sure enough he was there! Better yet to bring him home and still make it to my sons soccer game at noon. Now I find that shooting with my camera is just as rewarding,as long as someone shares their lucky catch. I find that I can get just as excited by stopping and watch someone land a nice fish,and I can feel their excitement even if it wont be on my bbq or frying pan!
What Id love to be able to do in my life time, is to wake up to a warm and sunny morning,of course living in Humboldt County there is a problem. Ive been to Maui 3 times in my life, and the difference in my attitude upon waking up to the sounds of all the different birds,the wonderful fragrances,and being at the beach at 9am,really does do wonders for me,but then again there are all the different things that this area has to offer that I would miss. I have loved and lost many a times in the years of my life. Im still trying to find out what exactly Im looking for that would fulfill my life and make it worthwhile and satisfactory. I think growing old with someone you really love and care for would be nice,but then again I think it would be nice just to grow old and be happy with myself. Im not looking for someone to take care of me, I have done that quite well for some time now. I have great friends that are always there if I need something that I cant do own my own. I love being outdoors in the summertime,hanging out at the river,working in my yard,sitting by the pond up the hill with a good book or just my camera. Winter time can become that cozy part of life Id like to share with someone. A nice wood fire,mainly because thats all the heat source I have,having an early dinner,watching a movie, then off to bed to keep warm.
As for entertainment other than the household can bring, I love going to concerts,watching my friends son play in his band,going to the movies once in a awhile,visiting with good friends. My choice in music may be a little scary to share right now, so I think Ill leave that part out,It would probably scare everyone away. Just so I dont keep you in suspense, the last concert I went to see was Rammstein.
Id like to think that I can live the rest of my life without having to depend on someone else to make my life complete,but I think that I do have alot to offer to the right person,and Im sure Id enjoy the company of someone who can tolerate me. Thanks for taking the time to read this. I wish all of you single guys out there to find what you are looking for.
The first date,hummmm...what is a date?? I believe it is an awkward thing we have to do to meet the person we have chosen to take a chance on. Id like to think there would be no hard feelings on either side if one decides that the person they have just met wasnt going to be right for them. I honestly think,that you can tell within the first 5 minutes if there is an attraction, I may be being to haste in my decision,but thats the way I feel. Id like to think that each person could just be honest and say how they feel, without having guilty feelings that they may be hurting someone elses feelings. I know I wouldnt want someone to say, "ok, Ill call you" and never hear from them. Everyone knows what they want and what they are looking for,and we are to far into life to be playing any games. Just tell the truth. I know I wouldnt want to meet someone for an expensive dinner,and have the poor guy thinking he has to pay,knowing he has no attraction for me. I believe the "Date" should come later when you both have made the choice to see each other again. So the question is,where are you suppose to meet someone?? Beats the hell out of me! I might say, meet me on the bridge in Blue Lake at 2:00pm, we can see if there are any salmon coming up the river,or maybe down off of 2nd street where the fountain is at a certain time...Im sure there are a number of places someone could meet where the other does not have to have the obligation of paying for someones meal,knowing they cant stand them. I say,make it short and sweet,if you both agree to make the DATE, then do so then. If one of you does not want to do that,then just come right out and say, Im sorry, but I dont think this will work for me, what do you have to loose??