PLEASE DONT WASTE MY TIME .....I AM A SIZE 18 & I AM CURVY, THICK, ROUND, SOFT & STRONG!!
I'm 42 and it is now at t his age that I can say that I feel beautiful both inside and out....even with the wrinkles, grey hairs, and gravity!
Soooo here we are for.......sex, love, friendship, support, companionship, etc...
Looking for that unique someone who can be there to share in the "ups and downs" that life brings and not feel like he has to rescue me if I'm experiencing a problem, just listen while im brainstorming for a solution!
I'm a survivor! When you find yourself faced with problems or challenges, how do you act?
Me...l've changed the way I handle negativity. When problem are happening, instead of focusing on fear or anger... I try to listen for clues that help me know why its happening knowing shifts are happening to cause positive change.
I offer to respect your views and opinions although it doesnt mean ill always agree .....
Marriage ended 5 years ago and we just focus on doing whats best for our kiddo and have no drama issues.
Relationships takes 2 people who truly want to love combining lives and create, reshape, challenge, support, push, nuture, compromise & negotiate a life together.
I know this sounds strange....but i'm still looking or the love of my life. I have loved deeply. I have loved with intensity. I have loved with infatuation.... l have not loved someone I would consider te love of my life! Te man who I can see Imyself grow old with and still feel like a girl who has butterflies when looking into her boyfriends eyes....yet were both no where near being teenagers.... I thought I had found that recently, but its a mystery if what I yearn for even exists..... its in the universal hands of destiny.
I appreciate each chance at love, every 1st kiss, every marathon makeout session on the living room sofa, and all the fun stuff that comes after....with many lessons learned along the way. I've learned many hard lessons... one being that there is no way to control how your heart acts and reacts, it has a mind of its own. But given enough space and time, wounds do heal, if you allow them too. That is the only way you can keep moving forward in life and in love.
Coffee, conversation, chemistry..... It all depends on what we have in common and our availability in our schedules. Im pretty flexible..:0)