Ive been single for 9yrs post divorce and though its been challenging...I remain hopeful and open to what the Universe has in store for me.....
I have a perfectly imperfect soft, thick, curvy, petite, strong frame ....at 5'2" & 188lbs....but im not ashamed of my shape/size... cuz I know im ****ing awesome.... as a woman, mom, & overall human being, I Rock & know it!
I hit the gym 4-5 days a week and love it!
Getting & Staying Fit/Healthy gets me high inside and out...I never knew the awesome rush of feeling adrenaline/endorphines of a killer muscle building, fat burning... Sweat drippin- from-your-nose & eyelashes.... kind of workout! Before reaching my 40's, a workout felt like it was a chore to do...versus a rush to give your body/yourself! What a difference it is to truly feel the burn... and love it ;0)
I'd love to be with someone who is aware of what it takes to make a good team.... good communication skills, mutual respect, fidelity, trust, loyalty, great humor, sexual compatibility and Love??
The most precious requirement is the willingness to open your heart and trust again. Ive been wounded a few times over the course of 46yrs... But Ive never let it make me bitter or take my hope for happiness away! Anyone that's in my age range, man or woman, has war wounds from past relationships. But they all have a rile to play in transforming you into the person you are now.....so be happy and hopefully and enjoy every day like its the first & last day you have to live and love??
The Million dollar question I like to ask people is..... ?
Are you holding onto anger or fear from past relationships? If so....let it go and set yourself free to enjoy the now!!!
There is no point in giving the past lovers any energy or thoughts! Think about what you do want to have in a friend, lover, partner, companion, competitor(I love& am competitive in a good way playing old school board games??)
The one piece of advice Offer from learning the hard way is that by holding onto any sadness, pain or fear ...you continues to give away the thoughts and attract it back to you...so don't giawaany any you POWER to an Ex!.... Only focus on the joy of today and ...think thoughts about the positive new love coming into your life and feel grattitude...in advance for the new experiences...
In trying every day to imagine the happiness and love that I want to share with somrobe just as special and hopeful as I am about enjoying each day that comes. We all deserve to be happy for ourselves and those of us that have future generations that we needto be a good role model and an example of what life should be about.... An attitude of Gratitude and Love??
Good Luck to all us single fishies.....??