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| About | Non-smoker with Athletic body type | City | Pasadena California | ||
| Details | 34 year old Man, 5' 5" (165cm), Muslim | Ethnicity | Mixed race Virgo with Black hair | ||
| Intent | flabbergastsam wants to find someone to marry | Education | Some university | ||
| Personality | Humanist | Profession | retails |
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| I am Seeking a | Woman | For | Long term | |
| Needs Test | View his relationship needs | Chemistry | View his chemistry results | |
| Do you drink? | I do not drink | Do you want children? | Yes | |
| Marital Status | Single | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Pets | No Pets | Eye Color | Brown | |
| Do you have a car? | Yes | Do you have children? | No | |
| Longest Relationship | Under 1 year |
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About Me
These words and sentences are expressions of my heart in writing, so let me be careful here.
The utmost important idea about me which I'd like you and just about anybody to know and hopefully attest through out my life is that I am full of good intentions, even to the ones whom had hurt and dissapointed me. And if you would tell me that you are as well, then this is what I would feel about you - safe. Your good intentions, my dear, will never violate me. It will safe us unnecessary arguments, fights, headache, disbelieves, worries, and heartbreak. And later, God forbids, if things do not work out, then we will be able to leave it at that, and let each other lives. Hey that sounds awesome! Tell me you are that person - I know I am.
Now, knowing myself and the kind of person I have been for others, if I were to be a sweet somebody else, for what I like in a person, for the reason which I will write in the next paragraphs I would love to be with, humbly said someone like me. So similarly, the question for you is, knowing how well you are, if you were a sweet gentleman, would you be longing for a woman like yourself? Would you feel happy and safe being with someone like you? Or rather, what kind of worry, scare, and possible stress are you afraid of getting from being with you? Would her choice, decision, and behavior make you sleep good at night?
Moving on, just in case if you are wondering, the answer is yes to your questions if I am the followings: sane, sweet, with humility, mindful in words and actions, pay attention to others' feelings, lighthearted, well-mannered, genuine, trustworthy, peaceful, well-wisher, mature, motivated, thoughtful, thankful for what I have, nice to everybody, normal, tolerant, understanding, easy to get along with, warm, loving, tender, compassionate, affectionate, eager to please you, happiest on the simple things in life, witty, silly, lol, cool, open minded, will do chores, listening to what you say, have good hygiene, helpful, clean up after myself, can be sensitive at times, can take criticism, know when to be serious, sitting down when taking a piss at home hence the forever crisp bowl, and willling to change for the better - at least I will try. Not trying to sound like I am full of myself, but aren't you glad I mentioned all these. You be the judge.
I have common sense and sound judgment, with values and moral.
I am not pushy, not bossy, always try to be more than fair to anyone, even tempered, and neither physically nor verbally abusive.
I refrain from saying, "It’s not my problem" or "I don’t care." I am not interested in arguing just for the heck of it. I do not take advantage or mistreat one who is vulnerable, or one whose life depends on me.
I learn to give without taking, and will not remind you what favors I have done to get you do things for me.
I learn to let go and not interested in getting even. Still a winner in a losing game, if you understand what I mean.
And with those the aboves, the answer to your question if I am an ***hole or a jerk - is no. Yay!!!
And only if you value the aboves then I would think that it will be breeze and rewarding for you to love me.
More, I expect myself, as you are to be able to handle life. As I have experienced it, the course of life whether it is sweet, bitter, happy, sad, easy, stressful, or tough which could come and shift unexpectedly is expected by me.
I understand that we all have wishes and would think that with all of the hard work we deserve them better over the others. But Lord sometimes doesn't grant us what we want, not yet hopefully. Don't you see that everyone has distinct capabilities and is given different opportunities. What seems so easy for others to have or do might not be the case for you and I because of "the constraints" the Lord has decided for each of us. Though man's heart can feel sorrow, feel no pain, as it is a relief to know that matters are not solely determined by us, but that God decides above all for a purpose. So best just keep throwing punches and accept what comes after with patience, good attitude, and still, gratitude. And just play darn good defense after all.
Have you thought that happiness from blessings which God has given us is much greater than of those which hasn't been given or weren't given. And seriously, have we all said enough thanks for all that is granted - just to be fair. The fact is we don't say enough thanks for what we have but yet we want more. The fact is we are not happy with what we have but yet worry and sorrowful from the things which we don't have - just saying.
And now about you. What catches my attention is your kind and compassionate heart, when you are sweet, nice, and friendly to everybody. And when I see kindness through your eyes and through your voice. That to say your choice of words, your gestures, your sentences, and the sweet n soft tone by which you answered. The way you sweetly present yourself when you are with the others. The peacefulness which beams out of your characters. The serenity, the security, and the trust others could breath when they are with you.
I had dealt with lots of characters and made the best with them. But really, when it comes to loving you and sharing my life with, I would think that one who I would be comfortable with is someone who has that gentle soul, and polite. Someone who is comfortable with being pleasant, if you understand what I mean. Someone who when talks and acts is in a way that is healing not wounding.
Your act of kindness will melt my heart and get me teary-eyed as I have a soft spot for someone who can, and know how to give. Someone who wears her heart on her sleaves. Someone who smiles when she gives. As most likely, regardless of how much or how less God gives you, you will put smile on your face, to adjust to changes, to make it enough for yourself and yet still giving. You will accept and learn to have peace and happiness with what you have.
And if this could be your part where you are able to share your God given fortunes to invest in other people futures. Such as supporting the children with shoes, clothing, books, or tuitions for their educations; or anything you can do for what your heart calls.
And if you agree that there are such giving, which will give them the foundation to always giving themselves more, and when you realize it even more, on your part, though you do not expect any return but their wellness, God law will give you back, and much more with such joy and a sense of accomplishment in your life. And that to say if you can think of yourself worthy, not because how smart nor how blessed you are financially but when your hands can help others, then my loyalty, love, and all of me are yours.
The utmost important idea about me which I'd like you and just about anybody to know and hopefully attest through out my life is that I am full of good intentions, even to the ones whom had hurt and dissapointed me. And if you would tell me that you are as well, then this is what I would feel about you - safe. Your good intentions, my dear, will never violate me. It will safe us unnecessary arguments, fights, headache, disbelieves, worries, and heartbreak. And later, God forbids, if things do not work out, then we will be able to leave it at that, and let each other lives. Hey that sounds awesome! Tell me you are that person - I know I am.
Now, knowing myself and the kind of person I have been for others, if I were to be a sweet somebody else, for what I like in a person, for the reason which I will write in the next paragraphs I would love to be with, humbly said someone like me. So similarly, the question for you is, knowing how well you are, if you were a sweet gentleman, would you be longing for a woman like yourself? Would you feel happy and safe being with someone like you? Or rather, what kind of worry, scare, and possible stress are you afraid of getting from being with you? Would her choice, decision, and behavior make you sleep good at night?
Moving on, just in case if you are wondering, the answer is yes to your questions if I am the followings: sane, sweet, with humility, mindful in words and actions, pay attention to others' feelings, lighthearted, well-mannered, genuine, trustworthy, peaceful, well-wisher, mature, motivated, thoughtful, thankful for what I have, nice to everybody, normal, tolerant, understanding, easy to get along with, warm, loving, tender, compassionate, affectionate, eager to please you, happiest on the simple things in life, witty, silly, lol, cool, open minded, will do chores, listening to what you say, have good hygiene, helpful, clean up after myself, can be sensitive at times, can take criticism, know when to be serious, sitting down when taking a piss at home hence the forever crisp bowl, and willling to change for the better - at least I will try. Not trying to sound like I am full of myself, but aren't you glad I mentioned all these. You be the judge.
I have common sense and sound judgment, with values and moral.
I am not pushy, not bossy, always try to be more than fair to anyone, even tempered, and neither physically nor verbally abusive.
I refrain from saying, "It’s not my problem" or "I don’t care." I am not interested in arguing just for the heck of it. I do not take advantage or mistreat one who is vulnerable, or one whose life depends on me.
I learn to give without taking, and will not remind you what favors I have done to get you do things for me.
I learn to let go and not interested in getting even. Still a winner in a losing game, if you understand what I mean.
And with those the aboves, the answer to your question if I am an ***hole or a jerk - is no. Yay!!!
And only if you value the aboves then I would think that it will be breeze and rewarding for you to love me.
More, I expect myself, as you are to be able to handle life. As I have experienced it, the course of life whether it is sweet, bitter, happy, sad, easy, stressful, or tough which could come and shift unexpectedly is expected by me.
I understand that we all have wishes and would think that with all of the hard work we deserve them better over the others. But Lord sometimes doesn't grant us what we want, not yet hopefully. Don't you see that everyone has distinct capabilities and is given different opportunities. What seems so easy for others to have or do might not be the case for you and I because of "the constraints" the Lord has decided for each of us. Though man's heart can feel sorrow, feel no pain, as it is a relief to know that matters are not solely determined by us, but that God decides above all for a purpose. So best just keep throwing punches and accept what comes after with patience, good attitude, and still, gratitude. And just play darn good defense after all.
Have you thought that happiness from blessings which God has given us is much greater than of those which hasn't been given or weren't given. And seriously, have we all said enough thanks for all that is granted - just to be fair. The fact is we don't say enough thanks for what we have but yet we want more. The fact is we are not happy with what we have but yet worry and sorrowful from the things which we don't have - just saying.
And now about you. What catches my attention is your kind and compassionate heart, when you are sweet, nice, and friendly to everybody. And when I see kindness through your eyes and through your voice. That to say your choice of words, your gestures, your sentences, and the sweet n soft tone by which you answered. The way you sweetly present yourself when you are with the others. The peacefulness which beams out of your characters. The serenity, the security, and the trust others could breath when they are with you.
I had dealt with lots of characters and made the best with them. But really, when it comes to loving you and sharing my life with, I would think that one who I would be comfortable with is someone who has that gentle soul, and polite. Someone who is comfortable with being pleasant, if you understand what I mean. Someone who when talks and acts is in a way that is healing not wounding.
Your act of kindness will melt my heart and get me teary-eyed as I have a soft spot for someone who can, and know how to give. Someone who wears her heart on her sleaves. Someone who smiles when she gives. As most likely, regardless of how much or how less God gives you, you will put smile on your face, to adjust to changes, to make it enough for yourself and yet still giving. You will accept and learn to have peace and happiness with what you have.
And if this could be your part where you are able to share your God given fortunes to invest in other people futures. Such as supporting the children with shoes, clothing, books, or tuitions for their educations; or anything you can do for what your heart calls.
And if you agree that there are such giving, which will give them the foundation to always giving themselves more, and when you realize it even more, on your part, though you do not expect any return but their wellness, God law will give you back, and much more with such joy and a sense of accomplishment in your life. And that to say if you can think of yourself worthy, not because how smart nor how blessed you are financially but when your hands can help others, then my loyalty, love, and all of me are yours.
First Date
And like what I just said your characters are major to me. So if you are difficult, hard to please, only take, can't control your anger, do not screen what you say, mean, rude, unapologetic, can't handle yourself when cash is tight or spend until your last dollars - aha!, selfish, smart ass, fake, skin deep, have attitudes, in other word a bi_ch, then really I would drive my S600 as fast as I could away from you..lol thanks for the error signals.
That said I know you are not like that and I don't mean to be harsh, but I could sense it if you are happened to be. I am not nit-picking, and no body is perfect. But I do not want ending up being with an abusive person. Are we cool now, lol. Hug? You wouldn't want any of those in me either, would you?
I think I am educated enough in life though lacking in formal education, not because of lacking intelectually or the ability to learn or the drive to succeed and to overcome hardship but due to let say lack of supports - I don't blame nobody. And that is the reason why I have tried hard with as much as I have saved to assist some children in need of education because I believe better education creates a better, stronger, and fairer minded person with better understanding and opportunities to do themselves and people around them overall good.
I kind of say alot of things here because these are the essences that I would like you to know about me as I hope those what you will write in your profile as well.
A mother , God willing, to our future children is what I seek. Hence sanity - stability in mind and action, common sense, and the willingness to prioritize, compromise, and sacrifice are what I hope to find in you as I am trying to find these in me as well. And for what you are, together with for what I am, we will be more than enough best friend and lover for each other to confide in through thick and thin .
I understand everyone has her own preferences of whom they will rather be with the rest of her life. And I never said please love me unconditionally and by the way don't question or change me for being an ***hole and abusive because this is me and accepting these negatives are part of loving me. Nonsense!
If you being hurtful to other people then I don't personally think that you deserve to be loved. You deserve love only if you give love. Fair and square!
Thank you kindly for reading through these. I hope you would be able see me through, and find me. Hurry up please! lol
And I am done, yay!!! Any taker or you would rather me get you myself?
Oh...so for first date, would it be fine with you my dear if we could just cruise around and about to nowhere or maybe out of town while listening to my country collections as I shyly take a glance at you when you are not looking, aww! ok that's lame ..lol What a dork huh!
That said I know you are not like that and I don't mean to be harsh, but I could sense it if you are happened to be. I am not nit-picking, and no body is perfect. But I do not want ending up being with an abusive person. Are we cool now, lol. Hug? You wouldn't want any of those in me either, would you?
I think I am educated enough in life though lacking in formal education, not because of lacking intelectually or the ability to learn or the drive to succeed and to overcome hardship but due to let say lack of supports - I don't blame nobody. And that is the reason why I have tried hard with as much as I have saved to assist some children in need of education because I believe better education creates a better, stronger, and fairer minded person with better understanding and opportunities to do themselves and people around them overall good.
I kind of say alot of things here because these are the essences that I would like you to know about me as I hope those what you will write in your profile as well.
A mother , God willing, to our future children is what I seek. Hence sanity - stability in mind and action, common sense, and the willingness to prioritize, compromise, and sacrifice are what I hope to find in you as I am trying to find these in me as well. And for what you are, together with for what I am, we will be more than enough best friend and lover for each other to confide in through thick and thin .
I understand everyone has her own preferences of whom they will rather be with the rest of her life. And I never said please love me unconditionally and by the way don't question or change me for being an ***hole and abusive because this is me and accepting these negatives are part of loving me. Nonsense!
If you being hurtful to other people then I don't personally think that you deserve to be loved. You deserve love only if you give love. Fair and square!
Thank you kindly for reading through these. I hope you would be able see me through, and find me. Hurry up please! lol
And I am done, yay!!! Any taker or you would rather me get you myself?
Oh...so for first date, would it be fine with you my dear if we could just cruise around and about to nowhere or maybe out of town while listening to my country collections as I shyly take a glance at you when you are not looking, aww! ok that's lame ..lol What a dork huh!
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