I've hidden my profile, if you can still see me I think it means that we've previously been in contact. If that is the case, you can still contact me here if you want to. This site pings my email when I get a message. Oh, and if you are contacting me because you're in my "Users I want to meet" tab, nothing personal to anyone, but I've never used the "I want to meet you" function on this site. I have better things to do with my time than sit around clicking on "Yes, No or Maybe" whilst scrolling through head shots. I assume, due to my lack of participation, the POF database has arbitrarily assigned a bunch of profiles to my "Users I want to meet" tab since I have somehow managed to acquire a top 30.
Enough is enough already with POF. Online dating is NOT for me. This is no way to meet people because for me chemistry is just too important. You know, that connection you get with some people when your eyes meet and lock across a room or when you're walking down the street. When I get that instant communication with someone, I know I've connected with either a kindred spirit or a psychopath - either way its bound to be interesting if nothing else. That doesn't come across online and for me it is sorely lacking.
I am going back to traditional methods of meeting people, you know (bars, temples, massage parlours - ha ha gotcha - the lyrics from One Night in Bangkok came to mind.) Really though, parks, streets, bars, restaurants, wine tastings, sporting events, art galleries, outdoor concerts, intermission at the theatre, airports - even supermarkets. All places where people get out and LIVE! All places I've met and clicked with really interesting people in the past.
If you're the sort of person that actually does get out there and LIVE I hope to see you in the produce section or the security line up at Pierson or wherever - because ya neva know. ;-)
Adiós mis pescaditos. Buena suerte y espero que todos, les vaya bien.