Ok - Can I just open this with a question to all you men out there in the pond...Is there anyone out there that's actually looking to get to know a woman and make a possible connection with someone or are you all just looking to get laid?? Quite frankly, I have been on this site long enough to have had the POF experience and let me just say this about that - not a one of you are all that and a bag of chips - just not worth it! Sorry fellows - if perhaps there is someone out there that is ready to be real and meet someone of quality that has a lot to give, then hit me back - otherwise, move on and pass me by bcuz, quite frankly, I'm done with this bullshit...ok, now returning to "about me"...
Well, lets see here...I consider myself to be a happy, playful, free spirit who's also a down-to-earth realist. Always open to learning something new - I love to go on adventures & explore places I have never been. The loves of my life are my 2 children. I have a 18 yr old son and a 20 yr old daughter & they keep me going when I think I just can't. So yeah, they are awesome & two of the best people I know & loved far more, I'm sure, than they even know! Obviously I was married & now I'm not. Hoping to someday find the person who will take me for who I am, believe in me & love me beyond words.
I tend to be a bit idealistic about love, still hoping to find romance & chivalry alive somewhere in someone so my man's going to have to be someone who's just as idealistic about love as I am but also someone with a bit of a thick skin who can turn me on with their quick wit & appetite for life but who can also wrap their arms around me and make me dizzy with his hot passionate kisses.
I am a gourmet & love to cook & bake, it is my passion. Also enjoy going to the movies as well as watching at home all snuggled up on the couch, going to the theater, concerts, SPORTS! especially baseball but football & hockey are close 2nds, museums, festivals, LOVE the ocean & the forest - just about anything outdoors!
What I'm looking for: Well, I'm in search of my soulmate...very interested to see if I can find someone who's thoughtful, has ambition & stability & doesn't have a problem communicating their thoughts & feelings. Someone who truly loves me for who I am on the inside & who's not going to give up on "us" if the road becomes rocky, as it sometimes does. Someone who wants to work in the solution, not stay in the problem...who's positive about love & believes in it despite everything else.
So, if this sounds good to you and you're still interested, come out & play - I'd love to meet you!