tchartr: Really Cool, Intriguing Headline
Non-smoker with Average body type
Victoria, British Columbia
27 year old Man, 5' 11" (180cm), Non-Religious
Other ethnicity Aries with Black hair
tchartr isn't seeking a relationship or any kind of commitment.
Bachelors degree
Graduate Student

I am Seeking a Man For Friends
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Not Single and Not Looking Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 6 years

About Me
Moving to Toronto in August, so just looking for summer friends in Victoria.

Long-term, I am looking for a good match and have a pretty clear idea of what that entails. Contact me if anything I've written below piques your interest. Happy to hear from you.

I would say I am compatible with someone who is mature, curious/critical, intelligent, has a sense of humour and has figured themselves out a little bit. A good test is... can you ask for something in a relationship or handle being asked for something by your partner? We're likely to hit it off if you have experience with relationships and prefer in-person interactions to online ones. Although I have a profile on this site and will talk to you for a bit online, I will lose interest quite fast if I don't know you as a physical person.

I like to be real and direct with people. I'm genuine, mature, intellectual, self-aware, introverted and on an constant path of growth and self-transformation. I like to think I'm funny. Perhaps you will agree?

My career path is academic. As such, I am interested in a partner who can be critical about ideas held by themselves or others. I'm currently finishing up a Master's degree and will be moving onto a Ph.D. afterward. Another intention I have is to maintain my contribution to a caring community through activism and organizing. A personal goal of mine is to never stop growing, challenging myself, surprising myself, and seeking peace in/with myself. The world is a place of abundance.

Interests/Preoccupations/Hobbies: (none of which you need share with me)

Someone's politics are important to me. By which I don't just mean politicians and legislatures, but also social issues and more radical / critical philosophical questions. In practical politics, I'm left wing, although disillusioned with actual parties. As for the more ephemeral stuff...a short version would be: To me, nothing is beyond question. Some of my favourite theorists/philosophers are Michel Foucault, Friedrich Nietzsche, Martin Heidegger, and Judith Butler.

I like to unwind with good TV and movies. Some of my favourite comedies are Arrested Development, Louie, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Sex & the City, Portlandia, Seinfeld... Some of my favourite dramatic/genre series are Twin Peaks, Breaking Bad, Mad Men... My favourite movie is Glengarry Glen Ross. My favourite directors are Stanley Kubrick and David Lynch. In general, if its a comedy without a laugh track, something with a cult following, a movie that didn't play in wide release, or some other weird gem - I'm there.

My favourite band is Bright Eyes. Music-wise, I usually like what people call alternative. Although, I am a little eclectic; not by any conscious effort, though.

As far as active/physical stuff, I like going to the gym, practicing yoga, and meditating when I can fit these things into my life as a grad student.

First Date
A conversation that doesn't end when we part ways, but only pauses.

Mail Settings
To send a message to tchartr you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 18 and 32.
Live in Canada
Must not be married