First of all, please be emotionally available......Dating and finding a match is hard enough, you start dating and seeing each other on a regular basis then they have an emotional breakdown because they saw the ex with the new girlfriend. Then you get told I guess I'm just not ready! Totally not fair!
I am looking for the rest of my life....I don't need someone to complete me, I'm looking for someone to compliment me. I want someone to share all that life has to offer, and to help me make the most of it. I want a woman that makes me feel like a man, and I want make her feel like a woman. I have high standards, (and you should too!!) I don't want to settle for second best. I NEVER thought I would be single at this point in time in my life, but I'm playing the cards I was dealt. I've made some mistakes in my past relationships, and have learned a lot (my own, and the ones I've picked). I love my past, it makes me who I am today, and would not change a thing, I have no regrets. I'm not in a hurry by no means, but there are some things about being in a relationship that I miss. My match should have a healthy lifestyle in mind, and oh my gosh have good hygene. Also, please be emotionally ready to participate in what ever direction us meeting each other may go.
I have an amazing 10 year old son, I am very much active in his life, as he is active in mine. I coach most all of his sports teams, except basketball, He's not much into soccer anymore, so Baseball,and football are important to him, and me!. I get him every other weekend, and every other Monday, and would take him full time if I had the opportunity. I cherish every second that I get with him, and any realationship that I find, he will come first, and if you have kids I hope that you will have the same mind. Together we can take excellent care of them!!!
I'm not into the bar scene, but do love go out and have fun sometimes, I"m not in a hurry. I'm a funny guy, and love to have a good time....no matter where I am. I love to cook, just about anything, I am a grill master (Ha!), love seafood, fish, I could eat sushi every day. I am outgoing, and active, I love to take trips, to the beach, or on a cruise! I've got a great group of friends, and we always are planning something. I think of my self as a romantic guy, and love to please! I love Halloween, St. Patty's day, and Christmas. We decorate big at my house....(Not the Griswalds but elegent)
I probably drive too fast, I love to take chances...I even run with scissors,(see I'm dangerous too!!!!). I've got a level head on my shoulders, I'm serious when its time to be, but most of the time I like to find the humor in all things. I'm really comfortable in any atmoshpere, dressed up in a tux, or a pair of shorts and t-shirt lounging around! LOVE my camo crocs!! (wow did I just admit that.....DAMN) Ha! I love a good intelligent converstation, and long for stomach hurting laughter.
I want passion, I love rubbing, and touching, direct contact, handfuls of hair, being a little forceful when the time is right, kissing the shoulders, neck and ears, but then also being very soft, sometimes only feeling my breath as my lips are just off the surface of your skin. I love soft whispers, and being blunt about what you, and I both want......(Too much? I hope not!!! only getting started!!) NOT wanting one night stands, or FWB, I don't need the Internet for that.
Please have current pictures. At this point in time in my life, I'm not going to settle for second best, you don't have to be perfect....you just have to be perfect for me! I'm not looking for another notch in my belt. I'm over that, and have been for quite some time.
Also looking for someone to go Mt. Biking with me too! I love it, I'm bound and determined to get back down to my college weight! Not too far to go....Get your bike...lets go!.....
Ok one more thing....I do enjoy a cigar from time to time, but not really into smoking, I love a good strong passionate kiss, and don't want you to taste or smell like an ashtray....!!
Let me throw one more thing out there, this statement is not meant to hurt anyones feelings, or offend anyone, but I don't date outside of my race, but I have no problem making new friends. Thanks for all the messages, but its just a preference. Thanks!!