jujujosie: Laughter is the best medicine
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
New britain, Connecticut
45 year old Female, 6' 1" (185cm), Catholic
Caucasian, Taurus
jujujosie is actively seeking a relationship.
Masters Degree

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Widowed Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About Me
Let's be upfront, Lust (the strong raw desire) is the first trigger when we see someone in a social setting.
It's a draw of some kind. It's hard to stave off and comes and goes easily. Friendship has to be given a chance along with Lust. Love (the unconditional touching of the soul at the core of everything we value - everything we’re vulnerable to), Lust, and Friend are needed for a real relationship to survive. If any one of them are missing, a person will seek it elsewhere and the relationship will fail.
Love needs trust and trust comes through developing a friendship. Friendship is someone who knows your secrets, laughs and plays with you without taking it personal, comes to your aide when needed, accepts and embraces "all" of you - your lifestyle, friends, family...they're your comrade in arms. Friendship isn't tied to the emotional trials of Love and Lust and can separate them.

With online dating, I find many rush into the relationship destroying what might have been a good thing. I have learned the hard way and I'm not looking to rush into anything in my life. Though I am looking for that woman who will touch my soul, I plan to go very slow as I'm very cautious and selective. I am looking for a partner willing to work the delicate balance of lust while growing a friendship. Someone outgoing and happy doing almost anything life has to offer yet well grounded, humbled, and a caregiver like me...not a co-dependent. Someone who can share laughter yet humble enough to share their disappointments. Someone who can share past memories and create new ones to cherish. Someone who wants to work as a team at whatever life throws at us knowing we each have the others back...someone looking for the fun, security, and stability of a strong relationship I can offer.

- Love my job, love my home, financially stable, secure, handyman for almost anything
- A caregiver...I wear my heart on my sleeve and readily give my trust upfront.
- Love helping others even for the littlest of things asking for nothing in return, especially those less fortunate and in need
- Honest, straight forward, sense of purpose, determined but patient, not stressing
- Loyal, stable. Once committed, I'm committed. I never stray. Integrity in the relationship is everything to me
- Not one to be jealous or make one jealous. I trust in the person without strings and sensitive to their need of me to be trustworthy
- Love any outdoor venue, any season. Beach, mountains, wine fests, concerts
- Love making others laugh and having fun. I try waking up everyday with something to smile and laugh about. If a smile is the first thing you do everyday and share with others, then the rest of the day will be smiles
- A die hard optimist...believing you can means you're half way there. There's always a positive side to everything and two sides to every story
- Every day is an adventure with a sprinkle of spontaneity...definitely not a couch potato unless it is with my woman in my arms
- I enjoy stimulating, exciting, engaging and sometimes intellectual conversations...there are always different perspectives and new things to learn
- Hopeless romantic...never stop dating your wife and never stop flirting with your husband
- Believe relationships should never come in between or at the expense of your kids, family, or friends...they should naturally blend over time
- Family and Friends orientated - Family 1st

First Date
Casual meeting,drink,coffee,movie.

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