I get a lot f messages from people who haven't read my profile
If you want a response, please mention both my kinks and being childfree in the FIRST email to me, and I will know you have in fact read my profile. That means something to me.
Here is a good test:
Will you travel to hawaii, sleep in a tent? Play video games til 1am with me? Watch reno 911 in bed? Tear it up on a dance floor occasionally?
Backpack all over europe? Cook dinner for me and not burn things? Get naked at a hot springs resort? Go to inspiring conferences on tech and innovation? Wander a museum without boredom setting in? Take a weekend workshop on tantra? Do you have the time, and the means to travel the world? ( I do)
If the answer is yes to these questions, we might be on the same page
child free for life
wanna be hot wife
brat / sweetheart
nature lover / city dweller
Lover of the 4 hour work week: I have time, I have means. I want to travel the world with my love :)
I'm online looking for someone rare
someone who doesnt want kids, ever...
someone who likes the idea of (occasionally...)
his *long term partner* being with other men...alone, or together (mmf)
In BDSM terms: hotwife fetishist, or a dominant cuckold. I do not date "sissies" or men who are extremely submissive. I like masculinity.
I'm not here for flings, or to find someone to explore this fetish with casually.
Despite all seriousness in this profile I am a kind, sweet, funny woman who will no doubt make you laugh and who will stick by your side when things get rough.
I am truly here to find "the one"... someone to take me off the market and this wretched website ;) I do like to take it very slow and definitely like to spend time as friends first.
Ultimately I dream of a partnership that is solid, someone who wants to travel the world chasing one deliciousness after the next. Another sunset paints the sky on fire, another tidal pool. Music festivals. The hunt for the best prosciutto in Italy, a hammock by the sea, countless dinners with friends...love, delicious love.
Hotwifing/cuckolding. For people unfamiliar with this fetish/lifestyle, it is by most definitions a loving, normal relationship, whereas the man is monogamous and to the relationship deeply committed: but is hot for the idea of his woman getting with other guys...with him in the room watching or participating, or on her own. It is an occasional thing. Its not an all the time thing.
People have asked that I clarify, so I will. It is not an "open" or poly relationship I seek. I am emotionally monogamous (it works best for me) and believe in making and keeping commitments, loving bravely and working things out when things get tough.
Truly, I am looking for a romantic connection/friendship/ compatibility first, kinks second.
I'm kinda a big kid in an extremely feminine frame, and have some geeky edges that might surprise you. I've lived an interesting and unconventional life. I am a mix of bohemian artist/entrepreneur/nature lover/wild child/sensitive soul and would suit someone solid, incredibly silly, extroverted and kind. Maybe another entrepreneur. I am self employed and have a ton of freedom to do as I please.
What I am looking for is unusual, perhaps, but my intentions are good. I'm not looking for free rein to do whatever I want. I will consider your feelings always. But I love the feeling of this dynamic with the man that I love, and this is the lifestyle I most want long term.
And since everyone has their own idea about hotwife/cuckolding, let me clarify:
~Most black men are not my taste, so if that is your "thing" we are not a match. I've dated caucasian guys for the most part.
~I want my guy to be well hung (more my being overly graphic, but hey, many cucks arent)
~I am not looking for my guy to be submissive in bed.
~I AM slightly dominant outside the bedroom. As in, I am strong, and have a ton of presence, know what I want in life, and will speak my mind. I am sometimes bossy and bratty but I mean well. If you are hot headed we are not a match. Someone stable to balance me out is best. Makes the kitten put away her claws.
~I am not into humiliation of any kind (of me or you)
I know, it seems odd to some, but I want a man who can be dominant in the bedroom, who also wants to watch me be taken on occasion, or hear about my sex-capades with others ;)
I get it: its rare. But I am hoping that in San Francisco I stand a chance of meeting someone wired like me. I believe in absolute honesty. I want a healthy, amazing, dynamic relationship with a man who feels like my best friend. I want to make a home together, travel the world together. Someone to laugh my head off with, be ridiculous and silly. Play video games. Go to costume parties. Volunteer together. Someone to indulge in music, art, and good food with. Someone who loves me for my artistic nature.
Really, I would suit a guy who wants a thick, tall, curvy girl (measurements of 38-30-42/size 10) I'm free spirited, well educated, meditating, street-wise, artistic, paleo-eating, rock climbing, entrepreneurial, clean up very well
I am childfree, I want to remain that way. Kids are fun, and hell, they love me...but I don't want any of my own, ever. Hopefully we have this in common too. (if we do, please mention it in your reply. men who also don't want kids go to the front of the line)
I get along with geeks and gamers, creative types, men in tech, men who are passionate. Men that can get silly and dress in costume with me. Men who can get serious and be supportive when the going gets rough. Men who haven't fallen for the stereotype of what an "adult" looks like. Someone NICE. Yes...NICE. It's rare.
I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone exceptional.