Hello and good day to you, thanks for stopping by :-)
One-size-fits-all looking for a match. If I've messaged you, it's because I actually think there's a chance that might be you. I'm not on POF to mess around, whether via chat or in person. If I think there's a match, and you are amenable, then I'll move quickly to meet you in person.
"What does 'one-size-fits-all' mean?", you ask. It means I can get along with almost anyone, but really connect with only a select few. I've heard that nylons are like that, but have more experience with hats ;-) Those few I do connect with are generally strong-willed, thoughtful, insightful, intelligent. I struggle with subjective descriptions of myself, but I do meet most all of the objective requirements I see on POF ladies' profiles: I have a car, home, career, my original teeth, I pay my bills and for dates (what we do on the date, not the date herself!), I open doors, I don't like one night stands, etc.
So, I've messaged you or you're browsing around, maybe (probably?) thinking that I'm a bit cuddlier than I should be. Well, it's just words on a page, but I am making conscious lifestyle adjustments to reverse my 20-year fattening trend. Things like trying windsurfing and tennis, paying more attention to my diet (I don't mean 'dieting'). It's working, but slowly. I am definitely looking for someone who is either leading a healthy lifestyle or moving in that direction.
It's really a first meeting rather than a date, where each of us can decide whether to ask the other out for real, or slink away through the bathroom (I've never done that).