I have recently moved back to Dallas after working in New York and Boston. I am a college graduate, and I have a great job that keeps me very busy.
If I send you a message, I promise I have read your profile, BUT my message is probably going to read something like this " hi how are you?" I am sick of messaging something fun and witty only to never hear anything back, so I figure if you respond to my short message we can start the conversation from that point.
I think these things are funny, particularly ones that read thusly "looking for something real OR liars, cheaters and aholes need not apply." I don't think posting something like that is inherently silly, but no one is goin to post "sure hope I get my heart broken OR looking for something rude and superficial." I just think the heading section is a little superfluous. That's my $.02 on that.