First off, I want to make it clear that I am not looking for a date. I just move a lot and work a lot and don't really have any friends in this town, seeing as how I am not from here. Nor do I have an outlet for going out and meeting people outside of work. I realize I'm probably in the wrong place for that as there are a lot of pervs on here. A friend of mine suggested this website though, so I figured I'd at least try. There has got to be other people in a similar boat than I am on here. I'm not looking to meet my soul mate on the internet, let's be real here. Just looking to expand my horizons, possibly meet someone I would've never met otherwise, and try something new.
Please don't blow up my inbox. I'm very busy and only check this once every couple of days or so. If you message me several times and I don't respond and still you continue to message me, that's creepy. Take a hint. If I do respond then I am gauging whether or not I think you're creepy or dull or even someone I would actually hang out with in person. If you are, we can work on being friends in the real world and then go from there. Hopefully you don't turn out to be a murderer. I'm not really a big fan of stalkers or rapists either. Just a fan of good conversation and beers, looking for someone to maybe show me around since I'm the new kid in town.
PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME IF ANY OF THE FOLLOWING APPLIES TO YOU:
First off, no rapists, stalkers, or murderers.
If you're a creep or a pervert or if you desperately sit at home spending all your time online scrolling through this website.
Please don't message me asking for sex, please don't send me sexual messages, and please don't send me pictures of your penis. Ew.
If you're boring.
No ghetto guys and no white trash.
No people dAt TyPe LyKe DiS. Clearly that shows that you're immature and maybe even slightly retarded. Learn how to spell and punctuate, it's really not that hard. (If that's how you write, I can only imagine how you speak.)
All you guys with overly defined muscles, wearing speedos and flexing in your pictures, are you serious?? Maybe that's the ideal for most girls, but not this one. In fact, that kinda turns me off. I'm not into muscles, fake tans, or guys who wax their eyebrows. I'm not from the Jersey Shore.
I don't want to be around people with bad hygiene. Also, being well groomed is an expression of how well you take care of yourself. I take very good care of myself, so I expect people I surround myself with to do the same. Have some pride in yourself!!
I've also noticed that about half of you have a picture of you with an attractive female as your main picture, which is a little odd if you're on here trying to meet girls. Don't you think?? Some of you even have multiple pictures of you with the same girl, who I assume is your ex and the girl you're on on here trying to get over. If this is the case, please don't message me. Just don't. That's weird.
DO MESSAGE ME IF:
You're ok with just hanging out every now and then without the expectation that it will lead to anything more.
You're intelligent enough to know the difference between "there," "their," and "they're." Sadly, not enough people do know this.
You're a good conversationalist.
You like to go on random adventures.
You love dogs. Bonus points of you have a dog that you would like to bring along if we ever do hang out. My dog is in CA with my family and I miss him every day. I need more dog interaction in my life.
If you're a rocker guy or artistic, if you have substance, if you're creative, you're probably the type of person I like to be around.
Last off, I really dig a sense of humor. I'm a witty gal, I need a guy who can banter back. I get a lot of cliched messages from people who seem to think they're being funny. Most of the time they're not.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Surprise me.. Something unconventional and different, like going to Ikea and jumping on the beds, haha!! Or going to the park and swinging on the swings. Going to the animal shelter and playing with the dogs. Wandering around. Beers??