im a single mom of 4 kids, who are grown and on their own. i have a degree in criminal justice and psychology and tend to be drawn to men who are in the law enforcement field or the military although this isnt a prerequisite. the main thing i look for in a man is one who knows how to treat a woman--had enough of men who think hitting a woman is ok. that said im very open minded and judge every man on his own merit--i dont carry baggage thinking that all men are abusive just like not all blondes are dumb----i happen to be the flip side of a dumb blonde--im very well educated and can carry on a conversation about anything and enjoy a good debate--- i will admit when im wrong tho, no hangups about always being right. i do like to play devils advocate at times tho just to get a good conversation going. love to see others point of view. i love action movies give me the shoot em cop movies or car chases. as far as music goes i like anything except the screechy opera stuff that hurts my ears. im also one of those rare females who loves sports. a good baseball game beats about anything else going on. im pretty open to doing just about anything as long as you dont ask me to sit around twiddling my thumbs. boredom just isnt my thing but im pretty easy to entertain. Please if you hit the meet me button also send me a message. I promise i do respond to all messages but be patient with me I work odd hours and sleep even odder ones but I will get back to you. I am living in South Carolina now but am always open to move for the right person. I moved to South Carolina for someone but he wasn't what he portrayed himself to be so I'm not tied to Bennettsville in any way, ready to move anywhere as long as it's in the Carolinas or around there because I love it here. I'm just going to throw this out there because of some of the creeps that send messages. I love sex BUT I WILL NOT SEND PICS OR SLEEP WITH SOMEONE I'M NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SO DON'T ASK.
i like when a man is traditional in planning the date but also like it to be spontanious. the more original the idea the better i like it. just come up with some out of the ordinary and i will be happy. i dont drink but dont mind others who do as long as they dont drink and drive and dont mind meeting at a quiet bar to talk.