IIslandguy7
Age: 62
Long Term
Pipihana
Age: 61
Dating
Kontact: Looking for the same thing as you
About
Non-Smoker with Average body type
City
Paauhau, Hawaii
Details
66 year old Male, 5' 10" (178cm), Other
Ethnicity
Caucasian, Leo
Intent
Kontact is looking for a relationship.
Education
Masters Degree
Personality
Artsy
Profession
school counselor


dating
Somebody got a new camera!






I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Widowed Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat & Dog  



About Dave
I was active on this site for a while, wondering about trying it again. One problem is the idea of some soulmate waiting to find you. It's unlikely, and I say that while still being a card carrying romantic, of sorts. I'd go to meet someone from the site, and immediately both of us would be going through a checklist, is this the ONE? Tall enough, thin enough, presentable to my friends, money, and so on. Ahhh. I freeze up usually, a block of wood, because I put too much weight on first meeting. Not certain I'd still be like that or not. But it takes time to know someone. And if you turned out to be JUST a good person to go to the beach with, or hike around, talk it up, then that would be great.

For me an ideal encounter would be a situation where we both were honest,with no preconcevied box or role to stuff the other in. And then take if from there. Does it cross a line to admit I am lonely and to say probably so are you? For awhile now I've become more aware of just how much loneliness is out there. To be able to express who you are, and to be open to actually see who the other person is I think is the only real true answer & cure to all this. I'm open and patient.

I commented to a friend how the same faces always pop up on my search. He wondered if most the people on this site, like 75%, have committed suicide from loneliness, but that their profile will remain up, orbiting in the Search files until doomsday. Is that funny or just sad?

First Date
Meet, chat it up and see who the other person is. This could happen in any number of places. I love the beach, or there are some great hiking spots all over this island.