So, I must start out first by saying I hate typing these things... Its putting the spotlight on myself which somehow feels awkard since I am a very humble and down to earth person. So athough this is tough I want to be straight up and not beat around the bush on who I am. First I have high morals which leads to high standards... I am a get sh*t done type of chick, so I make sure before I have fun and let loose that everything is done and paid...
I like to be on the water doing anything, so naturally camping and any outdoor type of activity is right up my alley. I am down to try anything weather its riding jet ski's, cliff diving or doing back flips off the rope swing for the first time. Life is so short and it sucks for those who are afraid to live life to the fullest. I love adventure, and road trips and reasearching new places to go and explore. Of course I love to document all these memories- so know that I always have a camera or camcorder close by.
I would love to hang with someone who has good chemistry who can have a good time but also knows how to relax and just take it all in without the awkardness. I cant stand clingey guys who want to hang all over me and call or txt me constantly. Im a little old school as i am approaching 28 and cell phones and technology have not over run my life. I do not frequent social websites although I do have profiles on them. I just see it as kind of a waste of time and energy to stare at a device and communicate constantly. Lets chat and make a plan and go somewhere and talk face to face! Its an amazing concept let me tell you!
A major part of my life is my kids... Oh the shocker! Yes I have children- but if i would have made this profile 3 years ago it would have said something about being firm on my decision to not have kids. But life and its experiences change you and hopefully make you a better person, because thats exactly what my kids have done for me. They have taught me patience and selflessness and so many other life skills. They are little still, and I am fortunate to have a boy and a girl. I would love if there was someone out there that actually genually enjoyed kids because some people do not. Obviously dont waste your time reading on if you are one of those types. Dont worry my kids are awesome and very well behaved..and although I am an amazing and committed mom- I have trusted babysitters that allow me to have an adult life...
Which leads me to say that I have a close group of friends that I would trust with my life- real talk... so I am not going to ditch out on them when I become interested in someone. I think it is important for people to have their own friends and social lives that are able to flow and mix within a relationship. So what I am trying to say is I have friends and I enjoy my personal time so I dont always want to drag along my significant other.
Right now I am a student and I also work full time, so time is a valuable asset. I love my place and spend a lot of my spair time here. So I am down to go out but I have to plan in advance. My goal is to become an early interventionist working with drug exposed infants and then eventually become a social worker. So i guess its obvious i have my hands full, but i would like a partner that is willing to support me on my path. I know in the whole entirity of the world that my small part will count in some way to help with the big picture and I want someone who is there to live a chill life and work hard together to produce an empire.
I am a Scorpio and I am very independent so I have my own means of transportation and my own living situation, so I have no motives to cash in on a rich man that has it all. I am just looking for someone who has similar attributes who can laugh with me and have a good time. Although money is not an object I am looking to obtain, I would like to say that it is very important and actractive to be financially stable and live within ones means. So I am not interested in guys that dont work or claim money from the government. Its actractive when a man has a trade and something to bring to the table. I respect the sense of security that some employers offer like retirement and benefits. I don't mean to sound harsh but I have had my string of loosers that make it by on dirty money... And I am so over that! I need a real man....
Things I appreciate in a man are, first and foremost- responsibility for his own life... Like holding a steady job and having real interests of their own. A man who is confident in himself and doesn't want to constantly make sure his lady isn't cheating it would be amazing to be able to live life together like normal people do. I dont want another partier who has to go out every weekend and get hammered...Its so unactractive! if he knows how to cook well that's a real bonus! I also love an outdoorsey athletic man, who's can take a situation into his own hands and make things happen. One whos not afraid to get dirty and will take me camping or road tripping. Someone who is not afraid to jump off a cliff into the water or take me on his bike. I want a man who inspires me, who has an artistic flare, or is in to tatoos or piercings. He needs to be intelligent, but not arrogant. I want to be able to teach and learn from this person. Most of all I want someone who is happy go lucky, like me and can emminate positive energy as I am a very receptive and spiritual person.
If I quickly had to drop in some physical traits I like in guys they would be, fit, tan, tatted, great smile, either faded up or long hair, possibly someone over 5'8. I like guys who are latin, Italian, white or maybe middle eastern, sorry, I swear im not predjuce but im not really into black men... although I have honestly never dated anyone other than white. I think I am ready to experience something outside of the norm because so far this type has not worked out for me.
I have alot to offer in the way of being an awesome friend or girlfriend, but we have to be friends first for me to really know if we could be something more... I am super chill and have been compared many times to just being "one of the guys" so know that if we kick it you have nothing to get anxiety ridden about. In conclusion I'd like to throw out the fact that Im not a sleazy girl just looking to get down, so dont even try to hit me up with that cheezy shit... -S
We do not remember the days we remember the moments. -E. Pavise
Wow- the first date question... Hmmm-
Ok, so we would probably go somewhere in a very social situation... Eat, drink, walk, talk.... jeez I dont know really? Maybe it would be so awesome all we would have to do is sit and laugh all night with no worries.
On dates I enjoy:
-Pubs and restraunts
-Anything creative and comfortable
On dates I hate:
-Ordering for me
-Going "dutch" (unless discussed before)
-Small tips (for the waitress)
-Trying to get me drunk
-Trying to get laid
-Obsessivly calling afterwards
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