I dont want to waste your time or mine so please read before contacting me... I'll be honest when I say that I judge books by their covers... if you say you don't- your lying.
Just fyi- I'm recently single after 8 years and I'm still healing... Not looking for a relationship, but not opposed if I find someone compatable.
There has been a bigger amount of guys messaging me than I ever could have dreamed and I'm very greateful for the kind words and humor. But honestly there are too many scary or nasty guys that are just making me rethink this wanting to love someone new... Just know I'm real- as real as they come, I'm just waiting to find someone who appreciates me the way I want to appreciate them.
On to some info about me, there's a lot to read, and while it is long it spells out who I am and what I'm looking for. Trust me I have a huge personality so there's much more to me than just what's written below.
Im a total Delta girl, so naturally I like to be on the water doing anything, wake surfing, boating or just floating. A day in the sun with my toes in the sand is my drug of choice... I love camping and any outdoor type of activity is right up my alley. I am down to try anything weather its sailing, riding jet ski's, or doing back flips off the rope swing. Life is so short and it sucks for those who are afraid to live life to the fullest.
Since this is my lifestyle I NEED to find someone that also knows and lives the Delta life and is in to water recreation. I know this greatly reduces my options when it comes to you men out there... But this is what I do, and where I spend the bulk of my free time. This person should have boat etiquette and know how to navigate as well as putting safety first!
I am a Scorpio and I am very independent so I have my own means of transportation and my own living situation, so I have no motives to cash in on a rich man that has it all. I am just looking for someone who has similar attributes who can laugh with me and have a good time. Although money is not an object I am looking to obtain, I would like to say that it is very important and actractive to be financially stable and live within ones means. So I am not interested in guys that dont work or claim money from the government. Its actractive when a man has an education or a trade to bring to the table. I'm in a union and respect the sense of security that the union provides, so yes I love Union Boys & tradesmen.
Things I appreciate in a person are first and foremost- responsibility for his own life... Like holding a steady job and having real interests of their own. A person who is confident in themselves and doesn't want to constantly stalk me or go out every weekend and get hammered.
Knowing how to cook well is a bonus but I also love an outdoorsy & athletic man, who's can take a situation into his own hands and make things happen. One whos not afraid to get dirty, and can fix things with their hands without having to call the local handyman. I want someone who has courage, and is not afraid to jump off a cliff into the water or take me through a mountain pass on his bike. I want a man who inspires me, who has an artistic flare, and is in to tatoos and piercings. This man needs to be intelligent, but not arrogant. I want to be able to teach and learn from this person. Most of all I want someone who is happy go lucky, like me and can emminate positive energy as I am a very receptive and spiritual person. Ultimately, I want a partner to build an empire with.
If I quickly had to drop in some physical male traits I like in guys they would be, fit, tan, tatted, great smile, either faded up or long hair, little to no facial hair, possibly someone over 5'8. The man I'm interested in needs to be CLEAN and fitted but not so much a suit and tie kinda guy..more like sneakers, ball caps, jeans, tattoos and tshirts. I like white guys, I swear im not predjuce but I'm NOT into black or Indian men... although I have honestly never dated anyone other than white.
I have alot to offer in the way of being an awesome friend or girlfriend, but we have to be friends first for me to really know if we could be something more...
So let me make myself very clear when I say: I'm not here for hook ups, I'm no ratchet and I don't plan on spreading my legs until I find the right one- so don't ask.
I am super chill and have been compared many times to just being one of the guys so know that if we kick it you have nothing to get anxiety ridden about.
We do not remember the days we remember the moments.
The truth is everyone's going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.
Wow- the first date question... Hmmm-
Let's keep it simple... Let's burn some rubber, have a drink, roll a joint and kick back.