I dont want to waste your time or mine so please read before contacting me... I'll be honest when I say that I judge books by their covers... if you say you don't- your lying.
I'm recently single after 8 years and I'm still healing... Not looking to jump into a relationship, but not opposed if I find someone compatable. I'm only looking for men who are men, age is but a number I understand, but you need to own it.. Be a gentleman about things, grab that door as were walking in somewhere, buy the coffee. Doesn't mean I'm a gold digger I just appreciate old fashioned values.
Also Just cause I'm 32 and I have a good job doesn't mean I'm going to be your sugar mama. You need to be on my level and we need to come into this as equals. You don't have kids fine, you do well that's fine too- and I expect the outlook to be the same for me. I have my whole world and I'm perfectly content the way it is. But it would be nice to have a partner to share experiences, a best friend, someone to love. This person doesn't have to be the hottest or the richest or the funniest.. But we need a spark- we need a real connection.
On to some info about me, and while it is long it spells out who I am. Im a total Delta girl, so naturally I like to be on the water doing anything, wake surfing, boating or just floating. A day in the sun with my toes in the sand is my drug of choice... I love camping and any outdoor type of activity is right up my alley. I am down to try anything weather its sailing, riding jet ski's, or doing back flips off the rope swing. Life is so short and it sucks for those who are afraid to live life to the fullest.
Since this is my lifestyle I NEED to find someone that also knows and lives the Delta life and is in to water recreation. I know this greatly reduces my options when it comes to you men out there... But this is what I do, and where I spend the bulk of my free time.
I am a Scorpio and I am very independent so I have my own means of transportation and my own living situation, I have no motives to cash in on a rich man that has it all. I am just looking for someone who has similar attributes who can laugh with me and have a good time. Although money is not an object I am looking to obtain, I would like to say that it is very important and attractive to be financially stable and live within ones means. So I am not interested in guys that dont work or claim money from the government. Its actractive when a man has an education or a trade to bring to the table. I'm in a union and respect the sense of security that the union provides, so yes I love Union Boys & tradesmen.
Knowing how to cook well is a bonus because I don't. Im attracted to outdoorsy & athletic men, who's can take a situation into his own hands and make things happen. One whos not afraid to get dirty, and can fix things with their hands without having to call the local handyman. I want someone who has courage, and is not afraid to jump off a cliff into the water or take me through a mountain pass on his motorcycle. I want a man who inspires me, who has an artistic flare, and is in to tatoos and piercings. This man needs to be intelligent, but not arrogant. I want to be able to teach and learn from this person. Most of all I want someone who is happy go lucky, like me and can emminate positive energy as I am a very receptive and spiritual person. Ultimately, I want a partner to build an empire with.
If I quickly had to drop in some physical male traits I like in guys they would be, fit, tan, tatted, great smile, either faded up or long hair, little to no facial hair, possibly someone over 5'8. The man I'm interested in needs to be CLEAN and fitted but not so much a suit and tie kinda guy..more like sneakers, ball caps, jeans, tattoos and tshirts. I like white guys, I swear im not predjuce but I'm NOT into black, Asian or Indian men... although I have honestly never dated anyone other than white.
So let me make myself very clear when I say: I'm not here for hook ups, I'm no hoe and I don't plan on spreading my legs until I find the right one- so ****ing don't ask.
We do not remember the days we remember the moments.
The truth is everyone's going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.
Wow- the first date question... Hmmm-
Let's keep it simple... Let's burn some rubber, have a drink, roll a joint and kick back.