First I have to throw out a couple things before you read this really long and drawn out profile. I dont want to waste your time or mine... I have high morals which leads to high standards... I am a get things done type of chick, so I make sure before I have fun and let loose that everything is done and paid... I was raised by my military grandparents, so I am very respectful and concious of my actions. This has also led me to be very organized and CLEAN. I am not interested in men who live messy lifestyles or have poor hygiene. I don't mean to scare anyone off, so please know I do live comfortably, but there is order. (But don't think I'm one of those OCD girls that has to wash her hands a ton of times).
Im a total Delta girl, so naturally I like to be on the water doing anything, a day in the sun with my toes in the sand is my drug of choice... I love camping and any outdoor type of activity is right up my alley. I am down to try anything weather its boating, riding jet ski's, or doing back flips off the rope swing. Life is so short and it sucks for those who are afraid to live life to the fullest. I love adventure, and road trips and reasearching new places to go and explore.
A major part of my life is my job. I work full time in a 5 star resort as a Concierge. I have two kids a boy (4) and a girl (2) they are so intelligent, amazing and beautiful and have taught me more then i learned in all the years I attended school. If you are not down with kids you might as well stop reading now. Please dont waste your time reading on if you are one of those types. I'm a super committed mom but I do have trusted babysitters that allow me to have an adult life...
Which leads me to say that I have a close group of friends that I would trust with my life... So I am not going to ditch out on them when I become interested in someone. I think it is important for people to have their own friends and social lives that are able to flow and mix within a relationship. So what I am trying to say is I have friends and I enjoy my personal time so I dont always want to drag along my significant
I am a Scorpio and I am very independent so I have my own means of transportation and my own living situation, so I have no motives to cash in on a rich man that has it all. I am just looking for someone who has similar attributes who can laugh with me and have a good time. Although money is not an object I am looking to obtain, I would like to say that it is very important and actractive to be financially stable and live within ones means. So I am not interested in guys that dont work or claim money from the government. Its actractive when a man has a trade and something to bring to the table. I respect the sense of security that the union provides, yes I love Union Boys & tradesmen. I don't mean to sound harsh but I have had my string of musicians and guys that make it by on dirty money... And I am so over that! I need a real man....
Things I appreciate in a man are, first and foremost- responsibility for his own life... Like holding a steady job and having real interests of their own. A man who is confident in himself and doesn't want to constantly make sure his lady isn't cheating it would be amazing to be able to live life together like normal people do. I dont want another partier who has to go out every weekend and get hammered...Its so unactractive! if he knows how to cook well that's a real plus! I also love an outdoorsey athletic man, who's can take a situation into his own hands and make things happen. One whos not afraid to get dirty and will take me camping or road tripping. Someone who is not afraid to jump off a cliff into the water or take me on his bike. I want a man who inspires me, who has an artistic flare, and is in to tatoos and piercings. He needs to be intelligent, but not arrogant. I want to be able to teach and learn from this person. Most of all I want someone who is happy go lucky, like me and can emminate positive energy as I am a very receptive and spiritual person. I want a partner to build an empire with.
I would love to hang with someone who has good chemistry who can have a good time but also knows how to relax and just take it all in without the awkardness. I cant stand clingey guys who want to hang all over me and call or txt me constantly. I just see it as kind of a waste of time and energy to stare at a device and communicate constantly.
If I quickly had to drop in some physical traits I like in guys they would be, fit, tan, tatted, great smile, either faded up or long hair, possibly someone over 5'8. I like guys who are latin, Italian, white or maybe middle eastern, sorry, I swear im not predjuce but im not really into black men... although I have honestly never dated anyone other than white. I think I am ready to experience something outside of the norm because so far this type has not worked out for me.
I have alot to offer in the way of being an awesome friend or girlfriend, but we have to be friends first for me to really know if we could be something more... I am super chill and have been compared many times to just being "one of the guys" so know that if we kick it you have nothing to get anxiety ridden about. In conclusion I'd like to throw out the fact that Im not a sleazy girl just looking to get down, so dont even try to hit me up with that cheezy shit... -S
We do not remember the days we remember the moments. -E. Pavise
Wow- the first date question... Hmmm-
Ok, so we would probably go somewhere in a very social situation... Eat, drink, walk, talk.... jeez I dont know really? Maybe it would be so awesome all we would have to do is sit and laugh all night with no worries.
On dates I enjoy:
-Pubs and restraunts
-Anything creative and comfortable
On dates I hate:
-Ordering for me
-Going "dutch" (unless discussed before)
-Small tips (for the waitress)
-Trying to get me drunk with the intent to get down
-Obsessivly calling afterwards