**PLEASE READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING**
I own my home, car, college degree, and have a steady long term job (15 years). No kids, no baby mamas; although I wouldn't mind having kids someday. No games, I am drama free; a real man that handles his responsibilities.
I like kayaking, painting, running, tennis, camping, and other outdoorsy things. I don't necessarily like working out, but i do. I hate winter so I'm usually hibernating like a bear. Late night walks on a cool summer night looking at the stars is awesome.
Now the picky things :).
-- I rarely drink, I don't like beer. If drinking is a big part of your life, even socially, I'm not your guy. And i am not ok staying at home while you go out and drink with your friends. I will drink on rare occasions only. I want alcohol to be a very very small part of our relationship.
-- I am not shallow by any means, but there is a difference between a few extra pounds and obese. I lead an active lifestyle and am looking for a woman who enjoys being active as well. I'd like to be in better shape myself, i know it's a challenge, and you don't have to be a twig, but please keep this in mind before deciding if you think our lifestyles would be a good fit.
-- Children.. I am unsure if i want to have kids. I could go either way. I don't mind if you have one child. Any more than that and I don't think we'd be a good fit. I am not at a point in my life where I could handle a ready-made family dropping into my life.
I am a very down to earth genuine nice guy and i think you'll have a great time hanging out, spending quality time, and doing fun things with me. :). I can be a little quiet at first. I've been told i get better the longer you know me....sort of like the opposite of chewing gum.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Maybe grab ice cream, or a casual lunch. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other in a laid back environment. Hopefully everything will go great so we can have a second date.