I don't have a hard time meeting men, just always seem to be the wrong kind of men..just seems I end up paying, having to help them find their way or buy their spiderman briefs..lol.. I am a very kind hearted person..I wear my heart on my sleeve and can be considered an emotional person but only when it's appropriate..I am a very goal driven individual but have also been known to put my dreams aside to help others advance theirs..right out of high school I worked full time, working slowly towards my RN, so I guess you can say i have a very strong work ethic..but because life happens i put off until now when I go back Jan 2013, but the time I used to mature is only going to further me because I have decided to go for my PA instead..for those who don't understand medical terminology it means physicians assistant which is right under an MD.. As far as music, I like everything, even country..I live sorts, especially baseball, go Giants!.I grew up playing softball even into college..never really been introduced to football so I'd like to meet someone that can teach me.. I come from a very loving, successful, understanding and accepting family..they're very easy to get along with and are happy for me as long as the guy can be social, treats me well amd most important makes me happy!..i am very much a kid person..I want to specialize in ob/gyn, pediatrics..I hope to be a pediatrician..I do want a family but when it's right for both persons involved..in no way am I looking for "just add water, instant family"..I am not opposed to dating someone that already had kids as long as they treat them accordingly.. I am looking for someone who is honest, fun loving, can be romantic at times and is capable of still surprising me..I believe a relationship is a forever learning process..I would like to find someone who is semi-down to earth and nit a**** ***hole..I've already dated too many of those..I am not looking for a sugar daddy either..as I like to think of 50/50 when it comes to providing a life for one another..I would like to find someone that is out going: camping, fishing, mini golf, etc..and yet prefers to stay home for one of my home cooked meals, as I LOVE to cook, i am German so that explains it all..dinner, a movie and red wine..that appreciates the gesture and enjoys when I surprise them with candles, lingerie ready to give them the best massage they've ever had..this way I think it keeps the relationship interesting..chivalry is not dead it's just a dying field..lol..unfortunately.. My parents have raised me by good morals and to carry myself with class..a woman who prides themselves on crass is ignorant in my book!..I do not believe I am better than anyone else either, I do believe in the saying don't judge a book by it's cover or by the back introduction..I believe in reading a few chapters before you make a proper judgement call..I am also a very sarcastic person, I can take a joke as well as dish out some of the beat ones!.. Physical appearance isn't everything, but lets get real, it has a lot to do with attraction..I like a man who can dress up but likes to play in the dirt amd doesn't mind a five o'clock shadow..on themselves not me..lol..no worries there..I like a man who is somewhat in shape but isn't all roided out amd knows everyone at gnc bu first names..and a guy who has a better tan than me is too superficial!. I am just looking for someone who is more on the serious side when it comes to dating..nit someone that has a new flavor every week of the month..or puts me on the back burner hoping something better will come along..someone who actually knows what a "date" is, who has something going for themselves..that treats me special and can shake my dads hand when they meet him and be taking shots with him later on that night.. If any of this is of interests to you them send me an email letting me know..and even if I am not interested I will reply letting you know I am flattered because thats the kind of person I am!.
Anything fun to take the nerve out of a first date, especially an event where you can get to know one another but also have something else there to pay attention to and engage in if you run out of things to talk about for the moment..