I am 40 years old, I am not a beauty queen nor am I Barbie...I am a big woman and I have a big heart and a lot of love and great qualities to give...I am NOT looking for a 1 night stand or friends with benefits, I am NOT looking for phone sex or a 3sum, I am NOT looking for games or drama...I AM looking for something a little deeper and meaningful and stable! I AM looking for someone that isn't shallow and has a good sense of humor ...I am past the stage of "hooking up" lol I just want someone that I have that "click" with and leave the lies and past and baggage at the curb! :) I enjoy cooking and baking and reading, crafts and taking care of my home! I enjoy family time and BBQ's and I am open minded and easy to talk to if you enjoy a little bit of sass and sweet mixed together lol I am random and easily amused :) ...I am starting to wonder..Am I offering to much of myself? Because i am sure not finding anything close to my expectations LOL I am not butch or femme, I am just me.