Benial1981: I don't fear commitment, I fear wasting my time.
Smokes Often with Athletic body type
Athens, Georgia
34 year old Male, 6' 4" (193cm), Other
Black, Gemini
Benial1981 wants to find someone to marry.
Some college

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 8 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Benial
I am a man, A black man i am, And what you think of me, I don't giva damn! I am solid as a rock, Strong as an oak tree, I have a history of pride deep rooted in me. I shall not be moved, You can't bring me down. I refuse to allow you to turn my smile into a frown. My eyes are wide opened, No longer am i blind. I have taken the chains off of my mind. Like an uncaged bird, I am free. For i love life, And life loves me. Through the worst of storms still i stand. This is why i am a man! I don't just agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. I don't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. I don't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc...., I am ( I won't have to because it shows). I have my own opinions and yours and mines may clash, but i don't have to degrade you to prove i'm right. I even admit at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same. I'm not going to meet every item on your checklist. I am human with frailties and faults mixed in with all my wonderful and strong attributes. I need a real woman's love and respect. I need to feel that you don't live to catch me doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog! I don't necessarily give you a huge birthday or valentine's gift. I show my love in the ways that are comfortable to me. Don't judge me by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into to the myth that men are no good. Its just not true cause i been good all my life. I am a man of my word. I say what i mean and mean what i say. My word is my bond. I never leave you wondering if i'm going to call or show up- I am dependable. I have a love and a heart for my maker; as it grows so will my relationship and love with and for you grow. Plus i hear women on here saying that their looking for a real man well i take care of my son everyday so tell me what's realer than that! and one more to all the women on here you don't have to message me back when I send you a message it just let me know you're not the right woman to have around my son because my son deserves a real woman to be around him.

First Date
It doesn't matter with me as long as im with you.