I'm laid back, fun to be around, nerdy, brutally honest, sarcastic, can be silly/goofy at times, I have my sh*t together (employed, mobile, own place, etc), emotional baggage free, quick witted, & confident. When you meet me, the confidence you feel is not some mind game or something faked. I've got a pretty face, but my confidence comes from a lot more than that. I know who I am. I know what's important to me. I know how to laugh and have fun. I know the difference between right and wrong. I know what integrity and maturity are. I've spent time thinking about how I want to live my life. And, when I look in the mirror every morning, I am genuinely happy with the person who is looking back at me; he has a lot of character.
As for what I'm looking for: I think laundry lists of expectations are not only boring to read through, but cause people to miss out on meeting someone amazing. It's good to have standards, but a ton of ridiculous demands will leave you searching for someone that doesn't exist. Chemistry is either there or it isn't regardless of any checklist you may have. Besides, exceptions should always be made for exceptional people. The most important quality I'm looking for is someone that I can be myself around & vice versa.
A few qualities I'm attracted to:
Confident, but not arrogant.
A counter culture sense of style (e.g. tattoos, piercings, goth, emo, punk, etc).
A fun personality.
Attractive, but not a narcissist.
Intelligent, but not pretentious.
Adventurous, but not reckless.
Sexy, but classy.
Easy going, but knows when to stand up for themselves.
So to all of you lovely ladies out there: If you're looking for a real relationship with a man who's fun, challenging, intelligent, sincere, & will want to spend time with you because he genuinely thinks you're awesome send me a message.