As an observant modern day single man, I'd like to share something I've noticed with you and I think it's something more of us are experiencing than we'd like to admit. Serial dating is a growing phenomenon in the online world and I believe it's more of a distraction than an opportunity to increase the odds of finding a meaningful relationship. It's like trying to gather water in the palm of your hands... while you are busy gathering droplets, the good stuff is slipping through your fingers (I'll let you ponder that for a moment.)
I'm here because I'm looking for a real connection with someone who's fun, intelligent, genuine, and complements me as a person. The emotional, passionate, laughing until we cry kind of connection. Feet knocked out from under us, cheesy, romantic, and amazing. Someone I can be myself with, who I can talk to without having to pre-think things too much. Someone who just gets "it". I want to be excited, fascinated, intrigued, stimulated, inspired, challenged, and completely ravenous.
Now here's where I could be like almost everyone else online and throw a list of boring adjectives at you to describe myself, but that would likely mean nothing to you (without a story connecting them to an idea... why would it?) Anyone who has internet access and 5 minutes to start a dating profile will tell you they're the most amazingly awesome person ever in the history of awesomeness (because they can't put it on the internet if it's not true, am I right?)
For starters, I think one of the most important things I could tell you about myself is that I'm confident (not to be confused with arrogant.) Anyone can just say this, so right now it means nothing... but if I explain the "why" part of it, suddenly it actually tells you something REAL about myself.
I consider myself an attractive man, however I am not a narcissist so this has little to do with it. I've spent a lot of time thinking about my life and I know who I am... I know what's important to me. I know how to laugh at myself and have fun. I know what integrity and maturity are. I have a set of unwavering morals. I learn from my mistakes when I make them so they don't happen again (or at least less frequently.) I treat people how I'd like to be treated. I'm easy going, but I'm strong willed and I know when to stand up for myself (I won't hesitate to call bullsh*ton you if I feel it's justified.) And, when I wake up in the morning and look in the mirror, I'm genuinely happy with who is looking back at me; I know he has a lot of character (it seems to be a very rare thing these days.)
The CliffsNotes description of my personality would be the flirty geeky/nerdy intellectual type (think Chris Hardwick or Kevin Pereira) with a passion for music, science, the macabre, and anything typically enjoyed by geeks. For the record though... I am NOT one of those worldly internet travelers that has the entire collection of Star Wars figures displayed in an air-tight hyperbolic chamber, along with the original Han Solo carbonate resin mold from the movie (which actually contains the real Harrison Ford.)
I also happen to be a romance ninja! In case you didn't know... I'm very flirtatious, affectionate, sincere, and I truly love the premise of love. However, I know how to be cautious and take my time. The gift of ones heart is no small thing. It makes us vulnerable to that person and such a gift must be earned. I'm going to make you work for it, but to win the affections of a hopeless romantic means getting to experience being truly, madly, and deeply cared for.
You should message me if:
You're here looking for a long lasting meaningful connection with a man who gets "it".
You know who you are and what you want.
You think we'd be awesome together.
You have more to say than "Hey" or "let's chat" (seriously, I know you ladies don't like it... what makes you think I do? A little thought and effort will go a long way.)
To send a message to Time_Lord_81 you MUST meet the following criteria:
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