Well hello there! I guess this is the part where I attempt to describe a lifetime of "me" in a few paragraphs... here we go!
I've enjoyed my life up to this point. I've had good times and bad like anyone else, but the journey has taught me a lot about myself. When you meet me, the confidence you feel is not some mind game or something faked. I consider myself an attractive man, but my confidence comes from a lot more than that. I know who I am. I know what's important to me. I know how to laugh and have fun. I know the difference between right and wrong. I know what integrity and maturity are. I've spent time thinking about how I want to live my life. And, when I look in the mirror every morning, I am genuinely happy with the person who is looking back at me; he has a lot of character.
I have hobbies I enjoy, a family that loves me, and a wonderful group of loyal friends I've known most of my life. I'm very outgoing, fun loving, goofy, nerdy, rational, patient, understanding, sincere, loyal, and even tempered. I'd describe my personality as a fun blend of pop-culture references, flirty innuendo, a little silliness, sarcasm, dirty jokes, charm, and a razor sharp wit. I like to laugh and enjoy life most of the time, but I have no trouble at all putting on my serious face when appropriate.
I've always been a nerd, luckily for me in recent years it's become the cool thing to be. I grew up watching Star Wars, Dr Who, Star Trek, and all other kinds of sci-fi/fantasy with my dad. I'm definitely not the old nerd stereotype I grew up knowing though... I have my life together. I'm employed, I drive, I'm not glued to my computer 24/7, I'm not socially awkward, and I don't live with my parents... True story. I'm also a romance ninja! In case you didn't know ;)
Somethings missing from my life though... I still haven't found my bestest friend. Someone I can open up to and truly be myself around. Someone who understands caring about someone means accepting them for who they really are, flaws included. I'm not perfect and I certainly don't expect you to be. I'm looking for a partner though, not a rescue project. Someone who inspires me to be the best version of myself and who I can inspire in return. Most importantly, I need someone I can trust to have my back when the zombie apocalypse comes!
These are a few qualities I value and look for when considering a relationship with someone:
Intelligent, but not pretentious.
Confident, but not arrogant.
Attractive, but not a narcissist.
Adventurous, but not reckless.
Sexy, but classy.
Easy going, but knows when to stand up for themselves.
There's plenty of scandalous people in the world and I know sometimes it can be hard to take someone at their word. Especially with the internet making it so easy for people to lie about who they are and what they really want. It's not exactly easy for me to share all this stuff with total strangers, but I've done my best to be open and honest here. You'll have to decide for yourself if you believe it or not.
If you don't think you're ready for something like what I've described please continue shopping... I don't enjoy having my time or emotional energy wasted. However, if you're here looking for a real relationship with a man who's fun, challenging, intelligent, sincere, and will want to spend time with you because he genuinely thinks you're awesome send me a message.