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ok - I decided that I should update this - lets see if anyone really reads these. I'm looking for someone to prove me wrong. Prove to me that men aren't self centered and only looking for sex. Prove to me that a man can fall in love with someone. Prove to me that there are men who are interested in the little things in life - the excitement of getting to know someone - of sharing a life with someone. smile and laugh with someone.
yes i'm overweight. (slowly working on that - but still) yes i'm insecure. but the men that are in my past have led me to be that way. being alone sucks. but being with someone who only wants sex or who treats you badly is worse.
are there any good guys out there? prove it !
Yes this will sound shallow... and I apologize... but I'm really only am interested in men of the same race as myself. I don't consider myself racist its just a personal preference.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I think ideally We should message back and forth for a little bit.. See if our personalities click and we are able to engage in banter. I think one of the most important things is being able to carry on a conversation with each other. If we can't do that then everything else is moot. When we are both comfortable we can decide together what we'd be interested in doing.
i'm a very laid back and easy going person.