I am not on this site to play games. I value relationships. Every person and experience becomes a part of me. I believe there is nothing more important than the relationship between a man and a woman.
I was born and raised in los Angeles, CA. I am a driver for a limousine company but have also developed an app that is in testing phases and have recently started putting together marketing team. I am what has made me and growing up a single child in an abusive household made me think a lot more and ask the "why" question a lot. Nature is everything to me and I am not opposed to religions, books or words from others, but everything must revert back to nature for it to make sense to me. Family is of the utmost importance and I see my role as the man to be critical to it's foundation. I am a believer in submission. Everyday i strive to be the best man I can be through submission to the will of Allah. I am not religious but have an islamic background so please don't get confused by words that may sound as if i am religious btw. I submit by loving everyone and everything because to me love is the one thing that doesn't rely on duality. For example everything is everything and everything is nothing. I can have an ego and see myself of having great importance and at the same time realizing that I am powerless. Love on the other hand is not in need of an opposite, there is no need to hate. If someone breaks into my home and tries to harm my family, it is not hate for the intruder that will motivate my actions but love for my family. Through my submission the goal is a path of righteousness. Knowing that I will never be perfect like Allah, by loving all that Allah and always seeking him I can be an example and a light for others to see. When it comes to my relationship with a woman it is all based on my submission and discipline then the woman submits to me because she sees Allah in me. By me seeing the woman as second to Allah in the power she possesses. Every person on earth no matter how you view them came from the womb of a woman. By seeing the woman as powerful and the womb as sacred I realize that lust for a woman that I don't intend on marrying is destructive to the planet. I do not as much as kiss a girl unless I am dating only her and will only enter a woman if the spiritual connection is high and the desire to build a family is what we both want. I don't take sex lightly and realize that there are consequences for placing more value in myself as a man than just being able to lay with a woman. The man and woman are the foundation of heaven and hell on earth. I will never disrespect any woman because of the power they possess, no matter how disrespectful they are to me, I will simply walk away if my example isn't strong enough for them. I will work to make my woman the happiest woman on earth everyday and and will never want her to feel fear or sorrow. In my submission to the will of Allah and in my respect for her, a woman must submit to me if she sees Allah in me and sees a righteous man. Together we will be examples to our children and to the rest of the world. This is my belief on family. If you can see yourself in a relationship with a foundation of love, submission and sacrifice then please feel free to start a dialogue. Peace and blessings! Ajani
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Picnic on beach, walk through garden, finding constellations, learning somehing together.