Firstly, let me say if you are on here for any of the following just pass me by as ive really had my fill of: liars, guys looking to have their ego massaged, collectors of phone numbers, guys who spend time trying to convince me they 'like' me only to arrange to meet then go quiet or, decide you fancy getting me into bed but 'don't want a relationship' (when i havent even thought so far ahead!)
Or if you do any/all of the above, feel free to tell me what the actual point of any of it is! As I just don't get it.
If youre one of the rare genuine honest type (ive been told you do exist) read on.
Rant over ;)
Hmmmm, so the 'who am I' bit'. Always difficult this! I have my good and bad points and can, I guess, be a bit of a contradiction.
I would say, to name a few, I'm confident but can be shy; I'm an optimist cynic - yes, it's possible; easy going but with a feisty side and, finally; independent and like time on my own but thrive in the company of friends and those I care about. There are more but this profile is long enough...and I need to retain some mystery ;)
I enjoy all the usual things I guess:- spending time with my friends, going for coffee, eating out, going for a few drinks, the cinema, theatre and seeing bands and comedians I like. I do enjoy laughing :) But I find it's more who you're with and not necessarily what you're doing that counts.
I would say my interests are wide and varied (with the exception of sports, unless it's rugby) But I will make an effort if it's something the person I'm with enjoys.
One of my passions is traveling - even just a day or weekend away to explore somewhere I haven't been before. New Zealand is the 'biggy' but for the moment I'm content working my way through my Europe and UK list.
I have recently rediscovered my sense of adventure so lately I'm doing as many new and different things as I can. If it doesn't involve heights then I will probably give it a go!
Basically, if you don't take yourself too seriously, can be sensible when you need to and fun when you don't and think you could handle an intelligent but at times ditzy woman - yes, another contradiction! - with a slightly off beat sense of humour then we may well get on....so drop me a message :)
I have put 'want to date, but nothing serious' however, I'm not ruling anything out.
If I don't reply to a message, i'll apologise now. It'll be because I don't feel we have anything in common or you're not what I'm looking for. I don't mean that in any sort of a big headed way either. We all send messages with no response, I'm just letting you know why.
Oh and the 'relationship needs questionnaire' results: pretty much nonsense that I can't seem to delete...
Let's be honest, the first date is a bit like an interview, isn't it. So something/somewhere we will both be at ease and can have a bit of chat would be good, see if there is a 'spark'...we'll save something more interesting for the second one!