Hmmmm, the 'who am I' bit'. Always difficult this! I have my good and bad points and can, I guess, be a bit of a contradiction.
I would say, to name a few, I'm confident but can be shy; I'm an optimist cynic - yes, it's possible; easy going but with a feisty side and, finally; independent and like time on my own but thrive in the company of friends and those I care about. There are more but this profile is long enough...and I need to retain some mystery ;)
I enjoy all the usual things I guess:- spending time with my friends, going for coffee, eating out, going for a few drinks, the cinema, theatre and seeing bands and comedians I like. I do enjoy laughing :) But I find it's more who you're with and not necessarily what you're doing that counts.
I would say my interests are wide and varied (with the exception of sports, unless it's rugby) But I will make an effort if it's something the person I'm with enjoys.
One of my passions is traveling - even just a day or weekend away to explore somewhere I haven't been before. New Zealand is the 'biggy' but for the moment I'm content working my way through my Europe and UK list.
I have recently rediscovered my sense of adventure so lately I'm doing as many new and different things as I can. If it doesn't involve heights then I will probably give it a go!
Basically, if you don't take yourself too seriously, can be sensible when you need to and fun when you don't and think you could handle an intelligent but at times ditzy woman - yes, another contradiction! - with a slightly off beat sense of humour then we may well get on....so drop me a message :)
I have put 'want to date, but nothing serious' however, I'm not ruling anything out.
If I don't reply to a message, i'll apologise now. It'll be because I don't feel we have anything in common or you're not what I'm looking for. I don't mean that in any sort of a big headed way either. We all send messages with no response, I'm just letting you know why.
Oh and the 'relationship needs questionnaire' results: pretty much nonsense that I can't seem to delete...
Let's be honest, the first date will be a bit like an interview - wondering if you're saying the right thing and if you're making a good impression. And deciding whether you want to do either...
So something/somewhere we will both be at ease and can have a bit of chat would be good, see if there is a 'spark'...we'll save something more interesting for the second one!