Married, divorced, lost a love to cancer....dated sporadically in between....
If you're looking for casual/no commitment/"aren't sure if your ready for a relationship", or if you're intimidated by women that date men by choice instead of necessity (I.e. Money or daddy issues) then we won't get along; and I will not reply to your message.
ALSO, please in your introductory message do not call me baby, sugar, mama, honey, etc. it makes me think you're probably the sleezy guy at the bar that harasses women; and when they deny you, you call them an ugly b%#ch (or some other juvenile attack) becauseyour ego is bruised. JUST BE REAL with me, a simple "Hi, I read your profile saw your pictures and had to write you" will suffice.
I'm a work in progress, and constantly evolving. Very happy and secure in my life currently; looking for someone to share it with. I'm here for the right reasons and looking to get to know a person that is mature and secure enough for a reciprocal lasting relationship...if you're the same let's chat!
Something low key...rob a bank, join a gang, get matching tattoos..ya know the kinda stuff that brings people together...