At this point in my life,I'm beyond the games,beyond the empty promises. I'm truly looking for someone why says what they mean,means what they say. Such an easy concept,right? While I love the fictional character of Peter Pan,I'm not seeking to meet someone incapable of growing. If playing games is your forte and your "mentality has not caught up w/your biology", please do not click "wants to meet" (bonus points if you can guess the song I stole that line from, it's "only" my favorite band).
I'm surrounded by great friends,a large loving family that puts the "fun" in dysfunctional and now all that's missing is YOU. And by YOU I mean: literate, active, handsome, educated, liberal, rugged, not a frat boy type, would not be caught dead in Ed Hardy clothing or bedazzled jeans, earnest, fair and communicative with not only words but actions as well. Oh and foodies and wine connoisseurs are most welcome!
I guess I should also mention that I'm more of the literary type, prefer a good read over television. In addition to what's listed above, I'm also looking for somebody non-judgmental, non-agro, witty, laid back and positive. I tend to be an optimist (though a realist too) so if you're a perpetual pessimist,I'd probably annoy the hell out of you. You probably guessed that I'm a total sucker for sarcasm! Maybe we could catch a show or a festival together,participate in a 5K/10K run,hike,kayak or just lay on a blanket next to each other at a park and soak up the sun. Either way,let's live a little...or a lot and figure it all out as we go along.
While I appreciate those who take the time to reach out, I am apologizing now if I do not get back to you. I know what I want, know what I am attracted to and don't want to waste my time or anybody else's. I'm not a serial dater nor am I looking to meet one. No hard feelings,ok?
Having said that, while e-mails and texting can be cute for a short bit, I'd prefer face to face interaction as there's really no better way to determine whether the spark is there or not.
Best to you all!
* Disclaimer: While yes, I am of Hispanic decent I am in no way a Ruka in search of her Sancho or a "Mami" looking for her "Papi" so please for those of you who do reach out and attempt to woo me w/these names or better yet, via messages that are written solely in Spanish, I thank you; however, your assumption of me is incorrect.
Let's start w/an e-mail then meet for a coffee,tapas, a drink,perhaps?