OK LADIES, here is my question, and it's a long one. I am an affectionate man with a bad boy look. I dont lie nor do i cheat. Never have, never will. It's not in my DNA i guess. I am very romantic. I hold doors open for people (im one of the few who still does these days), i say please and thank you. When i am with someone i am loyal. I have that persons back at all times cause she is the one i care about and she is my partner. I bend over backwards and try to do right by the person i am with. I make her laugh and hold her when she cries and is feeling blue. I take care of her the best i can when she is sick. I let her vent when she is having a bad day and i try to make her smile. SO, IF I'M TOLD I AM EVERYTHING YOU HAVE EVER WANTED IN A MAN AND THAT I MADE YOU SO HAPPY. WHY IS IT I GET THE TABLES TURNED ON ME WHEN EVERYTHING IS GOING GREAT AND I'M SHUT OUT? IM CONFUSED. And i don't open my heart up to just anyone who comes along. My only answer to this question is (since us men are problem solvers), in todays technology it's very easy to fall into temptation. With sites like these and texting etc. And it's easy to wanna see whats on the other side of the fence or if the grass in greener on the other side. Most give into those temptations instead of being happy that you finally found what you were looking for. I myself am not one of the "most". When i'm with someone i am all there's. I HOPE SOMEDAY SOMBODY WILL COME ALONG AND WE CAN BOTH DELETE OUR ACCOUNTS ON THIS SITE COMPLETELY! Not to simply hide it momentarily.
NEWSFLASH!!!!! Am i missing something? Am i doing something wrong? Maybe i just don't get it or maybe its some cruel joke god is playing on me. But i look around daily. I'm very observant of my surroundings. I see thugs with gorgeous looking women and i chalk it up as cause they have their girls hooked on some kind of drug. I see geeks with their pocket protectors with gorgeous professional woman. Which is ok cause they have the brains and make the good money. But its not just about the money. I see fat older men than me driving Harleys with a hot woman on the back of his bike. And please folks don't take this the wrong way but i recently seen a few mentally challenged people together in relationships. I see dudes with 15 piercings in their face with with a good looking woman. I thought it was me because i don't have all the money and material things i once had but i have also seen bums on the street. Playing their guitars begging for money and their gorgeous filthy girlfriend is right there with them. I'm not "chatty Kathy" when i'm out and about and i don't hit on women from sunrise to sunset. And i don't create conversation with every hot woman that walks by me like i see most guys doing. Why, cause i know these women get hit on 9 million times a day and have heard every pick up line there is. So, i guess i respect them and leave them alone. Is it me? Am i ugly? Am i that unapproachable? I've been told all my life i look like 'm ready to rip someones head off. That i look like im pissed off. When the reality of it is that i am a happy person. I can hold an intellectual conversation. I have sarcastic humor. That i want to love and be loved. I have a heart of gold and anyone that i'm with i would bend over backwards for cause i care for them. Not to mention that POF shows me my so-called matches and they are complete opposites of what i look for and go for in a woman. So, i am confused. What seems to be my major malfunction that i can not be happy or even find someone whom wants to be treated right and with respect. With no games. With romance and love and laughter. Did i miss something here? Its frustrating seeing everyone around me with all different characteristics and backgrounds and you mean to tell me there's not one woman out there that would want a man like me? CONFUSED AND FRUSTRATED!!!!!!!!!!!
Pretty laid back..like to have fun and there is lots of things i would like to do and experience with that special someone as well. It always makes for a better time. Born in Pittsburgh but grew up in the Boston area cause my mother moved us up there and now have lived in Pittsburgh for the past 10 years. Tired of the games, who isn't? I just wanna have a woman kiss me and mean it. I workout 2 times a week. Volunteered at a local fire department. And am a proud veteran. Even though i have been hurt in the past i cant change myself. I wear my heart on my sleeve for the right girl. Get back at me if your interested cause i'm not on here to play games. Sometimes i'm too up front and honest. I have many interest in music and i like all kinds.
The slightest RED FLAG i see i'm out. So, you want the real deal then i'm your man. Play games, hit the bricks. I'm starting over again.
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