****FALL 2013 UPDATE*** Hey guys!! Recently single again and ACTUALLY looking to meet up with prospective suitors. I DO NOT GIVE MY NUMBER OUT until I meet you in person. (Had a bad experience, so I check for the "crazy eyes" now) Disingenuous disgusts me and those looking to just "hook up" need not apply.
I am in the market for a real relationship, but not willing to settle or rush into anything. I value integrity, depth & compassion above physical appearance. And I think that an unquenchable desire for personal growth & success is mad sexy. . .
Lastly, YES I am really a Professional Princess- I do birthday parties, and bring joy to the (small) masses. I also run my own business & make my own schedule. If conformity is something you cling to, and you can't get your head around anything but the typical 9-to-5, you shouldn't contact me. I love WEIRD in all forms :) No judgement, just savin' you "Type A's" some time. . . Keep it classy, POF!
I'm a fun-loving, down-to-earth, old fashioned girl. I love wine tasting, yoga & meditation, pilates, hanging with friends and fam, movies, live music, and will try just about anything once. I worked at a karaoke bar in Walnut Creek for a while, there's still a subset of people who refer to me as "Jenilla Ice" (a nickname the KJ gave me) since I would most often rap instead of sing when I was on the mic.
I love to laugh and have a tendency to find the lighter side of even the darkest situations. I am VERY sarcastic and love to laugh at myself most of all. I am fiercely loyal, almost to a fault. I rescued a cat named DangerMouse.
I don't have pierced ears, the smell of patchouli makes me wanna vomit, and I don't like the color pink. Really girly, high-maintenence girls annoy me. I'm just as comfortable at a fancy dinner in 4 inch heels as I am wearing the same sweats for 3 days on a camping trip. Fresh air and the smell of the ocean are the best medicine. I'm dying to learn how to paddleboard. I love pizza, am a cheeseburger connoisseur, and believe dessert is the most important meal of the day. That being said, I do try to eat as healthy as possible the rest of the time. I'm looking for a good guy to hang out with and if it leads to more, great. If not, no worries, and hopefully I'll gain a friend in the process.
UPDATE: If you want me to respond to your message it should be grammatically correct, longer than one word, and not simply be a comment on my appearance. Also, if you don't have a picture or completed profile you won't hear back. Thanks :)
Make it something good. Date #3 is when ALL the magic happens ;)
DISCLAIMER; a first meeting is not a date. Even if it happens to take place at night. It's meant to be brief & just long enough to gauge if we have chemistry and would like to go on a first date to get to know each other better.
So please, I beg you, don't get drunk & expect me to drive your dumb-a$$ home. That's not a good look, player. . . (And, yes, that actually happened, lol?)