My philosophy is to be as successful as I can without allowing work to dominate my life. If I am not enjoying my nights, weekends, days off, then what's the sense?
I want to spend my time with someone who is fun and funny, and enjoys good conversation, movies, dancing, sports, and who is adventurous, excited about learning/doing new things.
At the same time, she should be a good person, who cares deeply about others.
One of my unique qualities is my ability to see the humor in just about any type of situation, but still be a mature, considerate, caring, serious person who is eager to help others solve problems.