First Date
*First, don't hit me up asking to "chill," when your intentions are to bone. I'm not stupid and a lot smarter than that or what most people seem to think, its not happening, hop off! *Second, don't try to touch or grope me without evening knowing me, thinking I'd be interested. YUCK, HUGE TURN OFF! I just may have to stab you, or punch you in the jugular(NOT A JOKE). *Third, don't just assume or categorize me like every other self-righteous bleep that only cares about your money or materialistic things. All I care about is that, you can support your needs and or yourself. I know I have, can, do and will continue doing. I'm young and learned responsibility very early in my life and don't want or need anyone's help! *Lastly, I hate pet names. If you call me one out of assumption that I will like it, I will block you. I have a name, ask for it then use it!
If your occupation says "Baller" or "Getting Money" don't bother. People who make money don't need to boast or brag about it. When it's crunch time, we'll see who really got their head on their shoulders.
*Must haves! You must have a job, be self sufficient, your own car, your own living area..not with your parental(s). Unless, there's a specific reason why you do. Using the excuse "they live with you" doesn't work in my book. Other than being inactive or too sluggish to keep and hold a job! These are the main things I ask for. Too a lot of people, it sounds like a lot but I've been with too many unpredictable, unreliable, unstable, untrustworthy people. I'm tired of being the sole provider in my relationshits, I'm not having it anymore. I'm young, mature and support myself and don't have help from anyone. I'm getting older and would love to meet that special someone that I'm sure has stability and will be fully capable of starting a beautiful family when the timing is right. I'm not looking for someone to just "hook up" with. Just to be clear, I want a man, but don't need a man. If your on my page, take a risk, send me a message, and see what the result is! If you ever come up with a question you should ask it, never know what the answer could be.
In my eyes, to some people, ignorance is bliss. Be upfront and keep it 100% I hate mind games !!
To add on to my novel, Not really a "date" type of person unless alcohol or food is involved. First dates are socially awkward. So if you want to get my attention, feed me and take me for drinks. :)
For the record, I don't cook but I clean. You cook the meal, I'll clean the mess.
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