***PLEASE READ BEFORE MESSAGING ME***
My name is Kathryn. I live in Clarksville, Arkansas (about an hour east of Fort Smith) I'm a divorced mother of 3 children. 22, 19 & 10. None live with me.
I enjoy swimming, dancing, going to concerts, traveling, amusement and water parks, horseback riding, shooting darts.
I DO NOT smoke or do drugs and rarely drink. I'm looking for a man that is honest, trustworthy, good sense of humor, hard working, NON-SMOKER/NON-DIPPER/NON-DRUG user/and if he drinks then I'd prefer that he only do it on weekends. I feel strongly about this because my ex husband is a raging alcoholic and I have ZERO interest in jumping back in that boat.
Idealistically, physically he would be in the 35-45 age range but must be in decent shape.***MEN THAT LOOK DOWN AND CAN'T SEE THEIR FEET...DON'T BOTHER MESSAGING ME. I'm not attracted to pot-bellies. A little extra is ok. (meaning can get to the gym and can tone it up. That being said I am NOT looking for perfection because I'm far from it, but I do know what body type I'm attracted to so for those of you that opt out of posting a picture here if you decide to add me to your favorites and/or email me please be prepared to send recent pictures. I don't have a problem with meeting someone that is far away. BUT I am NOT able to share in traveling more than 2 hours away.
It has become necessary to state that I'm NOT attracted to African American men. Not racist. Just matter of personal preference.
OK if the following hurts anyone’s feelings then they need to thicken up their skin, but truth is hard to accept sometimes and the HARD truth is that when any of us is scanning thru the search section looking for that one special person, WE ALL are attracted to only what we can see, THE PICTURES!!!! We don’t look at every single profile that we see listed, we select the ones that have pictures that MAY be of interest to us and then we go look at the rest of the profile! 1 out of a 100 profiles we view may actually interest us. When someone views your page, that doesn’t mean they are going to message you. And I hate to address this, but OMG,,,, PLEASE understand that if you have photos of yourself on here from 1990...when you actually meet someone in person and they don’t see that picture they were attracted to WELL they will prolly be a little turned off, shocked and pissed, so if they leave you sitting there you have only yourself to blame!!!! I can not for the life of me understand why EVERYONE doesn’t just post CURRENT (taken within past 3 months at least) "full body" pictures of themselves on here and leave the fantasy photos alone, and if you have 5 current pics of your nose and eye's that doesn’t count cuz we all want to see what the "whole person" looks like! Attraction IS NOT everything and it will not be the ground to build a relationship on, BUT it is very important to have attraction or you will never have spark!!!! So if this makes me a superficial B**ch, don’t bother telling me in a message, just spend your time productively looking for someone more reserve that doesn’t speak her mind!!!! :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Meeting somewhere public to get to know him and see if there is a connection.
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Age Between:35 and 46.
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