I'm a 37 year old female with 2 boys (ages 8 &10). I share custody of them with their father, so that means I have the half the time during the week.
I have a job and a car of my own, so I'm not looking for someone to support me. I want to find someone to settle down with. This doesn't mean that I want to rush to the alter, but it does mean that I'm looking for something meaningful.
I'm secure where I am in my life right now..doesn't mean that there aren't room for improvements, I just take them all one day at a time and make the changes gradually..I'm hoping that this helps me make those changes permanent and part of my lifestyle.
My ideal match will be someone that makes me laugh (which honestly, it's easy to do as I have the lamest sense of humor), someone that makes me feel safe (and yes that means getting rid of spiders for me...ew, hate them!), someone that makes being with them effortless and comfortable. My ideal match will also be secure with himself and knows what he wants out of life. My match doesn't have to have the exact same interests as me, as I feel it's great to be able to introduce eachother to our own individual interests.
I enjoy taking in the amazing sights of the Bay Area, it definitely has it's perks. I love going for walks along local trails and love going for hikes in the area. My latest adventure was hiking out to Tomales Point, it was a beautiful day and the views were gorgeous. I recently got a mountain bike and have slowly taken to getting out there on the weekends....I'm no pro, but I have yet to fall, so that's a plus :)
I love cooking, BBQ'ing, hanging out with friends and conversing while having a few drinks.
I'm not looking for a hook up, FWB, NSA or that type of relationship. I also don't want to communicate via text for a long period of time...if you want to meet me, say so and we will set something up.