I am looking for female friends.. with or with out benefits. I am in a long distance relationship with a man. I spend a lot of time alone. nights . weekends, holidays, and most weekdays. I would love to find female friends to do things with and hang out . cook dinner watch tv. Widow shop and maybe go on road trips together. I am bi and would love to have a girl friend who can spend the night from time to time. This is not an offer for three sums, that is not what I am looking for. This is a friend ship, first and foremost, for me.
Ok Here I am .
I am an educated, creative and talented individual with very poor spelling skills. Thank goodness for spell check because I never would have made it through college with out it. I have a degree in Psychology, I play 4 instruments, and can teach/have taught them, and I am a wannabe artist. I am an accomplished leather craftsperson. I can make all kinds of things out of leather. From wallets, saddlebags, to moccasins and adult impact toys. I can even do figure carving on vegetable tanned leather and have done many art pieces that are meant to hang on the wall .
I am a big lady, always have been, But I am comfortable with who I am . Now that I am getting older I am slowing down a bit. But I have always been a fairly active person. I am neat and tidy and as far as personal hygiene I almost have a fetish about being clean. I expect the same from my partner. My nick name when I was younger was Donna Reed. I am very Betty Crockerish.
I am a service oriented submissive. I am not into degradation or severe humiliation. I get pleasure out of pleasing, to see that I have made you happy, content, or relaxed brings me joy. I am not a door mat. I don't need to be bossed around ( all the time :-)) . I believe that there are many ways to achieve the power exchange in a D/s relationship and least of all for me would be treating me with out respect. What I have to offer is of equal value to what a Dom/Domme would have to offer.
I am not looking for 24/7. I am comfortable where I am and am not looking to move in with someone. I do understand that should a LTR happen dynamics change over time in many ways. I don't hook up for sessions. A Hard limit is poly or swinging situations. I am selfish and don't share well.. If you have or need many sexual partners then I am not the one for you nor you for me.
Men should be gentlemen and women should be ladies. So this is some of me. Only a part of who/what I am. I don't usually put much out here on these things but I decided to be different. Do something out of my norm.
Hope this finds you in good spirits.. ta ta