:::O.k. 4/12/13 first edit to my very long profile based on mssg I get and ppl I have met:::I am always traveling for work and I live else where, but what shows is the city I’m currently in or going to be in next. Typically I fly in Mon and fly out Fri which is very limtiing. I don’t put home on my profile because I’m only there 5-7 days a month so it would make no sense. I will be in San Diego the week of May 27th for work and free evenings after 6pm. This isn’t intended to be rude just up front info.
I am not lacking pictures because I am ugly, odd, misshaped, fat, or anything else, and hoping when you meet me you’ll overlook the fact that you’re not at all attracted to me physically because I have a shining personality. I work with "A LOT" of ppl and care not to have someone whom I work with professionally come accross my profile. I like to keep work and personal life seperate. I take care of myself partially in hopes of being physically attractive. Because in the picture I have a beanie on, I get asked if I have hair…yes a lot of thick hair I keep short (ish)...lol. I look young in the pic, not an old picture (7 months) but I am 33 & look 27-32 depending on who you ask (Beanies make you look younger, lol). I stay healthy, have an odd but sincere sense of humor, am easy to get along with, and treat others well. I am up late until 2-3 am…sleep is a waste of time. I am also a huge dog lover. I had a small business on the side training dogs for years, even made it on Letterman Show. Dog lovers=extra points. =)
Business travel, leaves me no time for relationships @ home (currently wondering what the definition of home is as I am in different places more than I am there). I dislike the hotel room life, and I try to check out the cities, walking around as much as I can, so figured I should set up a account to see if anyone would be interested in at least meeting up to chat over a bite to eat, drink, walk down town, pool, ping-pong anything. I'm trying to be honest, I fly every week, am home about 5 days a month, I have no chance to date so am looking for others who are either in the same situation or are open to mine and wanting real human contact...chat and good convo, laughing and fun at the least but if it clicks are not opposed to taking things further.
As much as I'd like to have consistency in my life, get to know you, have several dates to see how we click…my life doesn't allow it. My reality is that of chatting online getting to know someone who seems really cool & hope not only that they are free on a weekday evening, but spontaneous enough to meet a stranger for a bite to eat or drink with no notice. I've chatted with a lot of amazing women who jst weren't up for a traveling thing...but 100% investment dating material (Guys why aren't you taking care of these ladies?) . (Starting to think I should spawn an online dating site & find these deserving women decent guys.) However 98% of the time someone makes planes to meet some emergency or uncontrolable comes up. While I’m aware life does happen, 98% of the time is a bit high…so if you contact me please just be willing to me meet this week or you’re wasting my time and yours. I will stay on POF despite my situation being understandably very un-desirable if for no other reason than if I don’t, it’s just me in my hotel room and I’m not really a big TV or hotel room person and sitting at the bars alone blows.
I’m not looking for a nightly booty call in verious cities or the diseases that go with it either, so just because we meet doesn't mean things will go any further. I am a guy, but am not going to play the stupid wolf in sheep’s clothing crap. I do have HOPES, but not expectations of how a successful evening out with someone will go. What I am not looking for is online chat friends, I'm about meeting in person. If you see my pic, read my profile, still dig me, then say hi. If I feel the same after seeing your profile I assume you want to and can meet this week. I think I defined how little courting time I have to woo you online or in person. =) I’m not looking for women who are already in relationships...go solve your problems somewhere else. I’m not looking for a slut in every city…you should know by now there are plenty of local guys more than happy to service you. Sluts= problems, I’d rather service myself (forgive the bluntness). I’m not looking for friendship, I only say this because I have a ton of friends where I live whom I do not see or talk to already. The most I could promise is seeing you again in 6-8 weeks when I’m back in yoru city. Long distance is not fair or healthy. I'm NOT LOOKING FOR GUYS for sure. And last but not least...I'm not looking to keep making plans to meet but have the other person keep coming up with a change of plans.(seems to be a theme and uggh, I’d rather just know you’re not going to show and I can go to the hotel gym and do work for the night instead of waiting around. Keep it level, keep it honest, and keep it laid back.) I am good enough company for myself…if you’re only thinking oh dinner with convo is cool and no potential for anything else please move on. While I have no expectations when we meet…I’m not out to have a continous string of first dates in different cities where I buy dinner and have the same convo…this isn’t the movie Groundhog day or 50 First Dates…though often it feels like it. If we meet…my typical 1st date can’t follow they typical dating timelines ppl are use to.
I am a guy, I hope through this site I find someone who's spunky, spontaneous, and not opposed to meeting someone who isn't Mr. Right as long as we click and your comfortable, knowing by weeks end I'll be out of town. If I ever do find what this overly lengthy profile says I am looking for, I do circle back around to each city in my territory about once a quarter…If you’re bored, have a sense of humor and can hold a convo, shoot me a mssg. Hope to hear from you soon.
Even if I’m not what you’re looking for…if you read through all of this I applaud your commitment to finishing what your start despite your carziness. If I’m not for you…I still wish you the best of luck!
I like to keep options open with little expectations. I went a lot into what I'm hoping for in my profile. What I can deliver, just short of a promise, is a fun evening, with good company who can easily hold a convo or enjoy a good conversation from casual to deep. Ideally I love to find someone cool to show me around the area (best dive bar to eat, best late night dessert) and people watch while joking around laughing at ourselves while we learn about each other casually. the rest of what I'm thinking is in the profile above.From there if we are clicking maybe take things to a physical level if both parties are good.
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