Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important:
I would describe myself as stable in my career and goal-oriented. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people’s feelings. . . . . . When I’m with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, being playful is important to me. I want someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I’m looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires someone who is not closed minded. If you have the tag I do not date "color of a man" just because you have had a previous bad experience based on your lack of judgment or you are some uneducated small town undercover racist who gets her information from the 6 o'clock news or some big city gold digger looking for a pay out, you've only shown your true colors and thanks for the heads up . . . . . . I feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. Having some similar interests helps–some things. I enjoy fine dining, walks at night, going dancing, watching movies including foreign films, travelling, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together. . . . . .
WHAT MAKES ME DIFFERENT: I was raised by a single mother. Made me believe how important it is to treat a woman right. My mother also taught me how to have inner strength and not to get walked on. I’m African American and love that I have been able to recognize the barriers that are present in today’s America and I am proud to be successful despite having to deal with that shit, but this has only made me increase my understand of just how fickle society is. I’m a TRUE Hip Hop fan but I like any type of music that make sense even if its country or heavy metal. I’ve had to overcome some shitty things in life and in doing so it’s made me a much stronger man.
I have a picture.