ABOUT ME: SORRY, I TYPE FAST AND TEND TO WRITE A LOT. :S
I'm honest, caring, adventurous, silly, somewhat picky... I love animals (dislike insects esp. indoors). Into Animal Welfare (not rights-- yep. there's a HUGE difference. I still wear leather (not fur) and eat meat–no seafood). LOL I can hang w/ the boys. I'm used to it. I'm not model-like physically tight, but try to take care of myself. I believe in God, but don't go to church anymore, but also believe in karma, chi, ying yang, and evolution and believe they can coexist harmoniously. There's always a balance to everything. I believe in not giving up easily in a relationship, so I tend to have long relationships. As to kids, I'm not closed to the idea, I'm undecided. Time will tell. I'm not stressing about it. I'm not a gold digger (money comes and goes). Can get along with a variety of pple. I'm strong and independent and don't need a man to validate me, but the company is pleasant and can enhance life. :)
LOOKING FOR THAT AWESOME GUY:
It's more than just physical, but attraction is important to me. So... a straight guy, no kids, ideally carnivore, but not strictly pescatarian, with max of a few tattoos (I like seeing skin, not images on large portions on skin), slim to average in weight. Sweet, caring, grounded, goal-oriented, mentally stimulating (educated), independent (but not too much to keep me out :P), (hence) considerate, sense of humor, not too sports-crazed —as in willing to do other non-sporty-sit-and-watch things on a Sunday-at least every now and then, enjoys working out (BUT no gym rats) or into physical outdoor activities are ok, enjoys traveling nationally & internationally, etc.
* If having a trophy girlfriend and her being absolutely physically tight is your thing, MOVE ALONG. I don't need that in my life. I try to be healthy fit & don't need to be lectured BUT tips and constructive criticism is welcomed if done with kindness. I do enjoy learning. I believe anything can be said and be well received if done with tact.
* I want a man who won't run away if I get ill but instead will pamper me. :P I certainly will do my best to pamper you, when ill.
* CANNOT SNORE!!** Not even like "a kitten"
(at least 99% of the time has to be snore-free) --I'm a very light sleeper, can't deal with it.
* Must like little dogs & be ok to share the bed w/ my little 7yo yorkie.
He may choose to sleep on the floor, but is always on bed esp. at night. If he snores, I make him stop. LOL Seriously, I do. :P
* NO CATS! I'm allergic.
* Not a temporary San Diegan.
* In a relationship I need honesty, communication and fidelity.
(I can't stand cheating. Without trust, nothing's left. --and although I've tried in the past, I've learned I can't let it go.)
* Live within 30 mins from wk &/or me.
[Currently in San Carlos (next to La Mesa/El Cajon)]. I don't really want to commute far to meet up....
* Not afraid of killing spiders for me... or willing to take them far, far, faaaaaar away. :P
(I can do it, just hate doing it. ok not a "MUST" but a HUGE LIKE if Mr. Awesome can help me out w/ that!!) :D :D :D
AS TO MESSAGING ME....
I'll usually respond unless your comment has no imagination or is insulting. If I'm not interested I'll let you know, but don't be offended. I'm sure you're an awesome guy, just might not be my cup of tea. :/
*** IMPORTANT NOTE FOR...
the IMMATURE, the CRAZIES, the EASILY OFFENDED, the VERY SHALLOW MEN, those who LACK IMAGINATION to only put "Hi, How are you?" in a message, and/or those WITHOUT a CLEAR PIC: ......*** DO NOT MESSAGE ME. ***
...If I turn you down... don't take it personally. I'm not that shallow, but I know what I want & if I see something in your profile that raises a red flag, then that's that. Don't be offended. Please be mature about it and take it gracefully and that includes not asking a million "BUT WHY NOT?"s. (yes. I'm saying bc a few crazies have been quite immature about getting rejected.) :P Who are the crazies? If you're not mad or severely bothered when turned down, then NOT you. :P
.. and just in case...
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.**