Every morning I wake up and smile because I have so much to be grateful and appreciative of. Maybe my smile today is because it's a bright sunny beautiful day. Or maybe it's a day full of thunderstorms and I get to thrill to the electricity in the air. You know that feeling that let's you know you are alive and that something exciting is about to happen. I feel alive as I connect people to new possibilities and opportunities all day long, navigate the rational absurdity of the business world and get paid for it. I feel alive as organize my home for the most harmonious Feng shui possible. I feel alive when I connect with mother and sister and share what I've been up to with them. And I definitely feel alive when I enjoy the beautiful sunset when I linger at the beach near where I live. Imagine me coming home from that wonderful experience and sitting down at the desk I built to quickly check my e-mail. What will I find there? I'm trying to decide what I will spend my night doing. Will I do the Chu-kung exercises I have practiced for years, which have, keep me in peak health? Slowly breathing in and out as I sweat the cares of the day away. Maybe I’m in a more active mood and feel the need to relieve my stress through the catharsis of well-practiced combat exercises. Or will sink into a deep meditative state surrounded by candles and sandalwood incense? Perhaps I will cook myself a 3-course meal tonight? Something with ripe fruits as an appetizer, grilled fresh Atlantic salmon paired with risotto rice and long succulent green beans as the main dish and a moist forbidden chocolate mousse as a naughty dessert. You know the kind of dessert that you close your eyes, put it in your mouth with a nice Pinot Grigio until there is an orgasm of delight. Or will I read an e-mail from someone special that will inspire me to head out to the door to laugh and play and discover someone new?
If you believe you are a special woman who respects herself in all the right ways, then I invite you to contact me. If you are spiritual in the sense that you seek a higher understanding of life, then I invite you to contact me. If you believe you are woman enough to handle the powerful gentleness of a real man, then I invite you to contact me. If you are an intelligent, wise woman who is healthy and whole, then I invite you to contact me. If you believe there is a goddess deep inside you that only awaits the right touch, the right word, the right person to awaken her so that she may spread light to every corner of your world, then I invite you to contact me. If you are real, authentic and open-minded in all the important ways, I invite you to contact me. If you have a vibrant, creative imagination coupled with an adventurous spirit, I invite you to contact me. If you can flirt with the best of them, then I invite you to contact me. If you think you can handle answering my six questions, which will revel you to me in ways even your closest friends don't know, then I invite you to contact me. And most important, if you believe you are the woman that I never knew I would desire, then I look forward to tonight’s adventure.
P.S. Honesty and follow-through in this context is important to me. Some women who have contacted me have not been honest about themselves, their life situation and what they are looking for. And I am definitely aware that there are men out there who lie about everything from their height to their marital status. We all find ourselves in unique life situations that we think another will not understand. In this context, that is not your decision to make, it is mine. My profile is completely honest, I will answer all of your questions honestly, and I deserve the same level of respect from you.
Also, please don't contact me because you are "testing" the waters, desire an Internet fantasy, are just curious, are seeking validation or are looking for a platonic activity partner. There is nothing wrong with things, however to do them with me wastes my time and your opportunity. I don’t do weeks and weeks of back and forth e-mail nor am I into online chat. Please be ready to have an actual conversation on the phone and meet in a public place.
P.P.S. It has been brought to my attention that I wasn’t specific about what physical type of woman I am looking for. The reason for that is because I believe every woman has the potential to be stunningly beautiful if she chooses the right path. What are important to me are personality, character and chemistry. (See above) Which are all things that can only be determined by talking and meeting with you. With that being said, here are some general guidelines. Please be height-weight proportional. Voluptuous is O.K. Being obese or anorexic is not. I am open to all races, ages, relationship statuses and ethnic groups. If the people around you consider you attractive, then you should contact me. I prefer a woman who can be a stylish, sensual dresser when the occasion calls for it. Lastly, please be within 20 miles of the metro Boston area or willing to travel here frequently. The e-mails from ladies half way across the country are flattering, however I’m not planning any major trips in the near future.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A first meeting is a dance between the conditions of the moment and two people desires for the future. If you were to envision your ideal first encounter, how it looks, how it sounds and how it feels, how good would the experience be? When you find yourself imagining a time in the future for all of your own good reasons when we are laughing, joking, flirting and totally enjoying each others company in all the ways that are meaningful to us. How wonderful would it be to look back on this moment, when you first emailed me, and smile as you recall it as the beginning of a wonderful experience.