I love chocolate...let's just get the important stuff out of the way immediately. I would gladly push down a child or run into traffic if I saw a candy bar laying on the ground. Some call that crazy, I call that common sense. I've also read my 9-year-old niece's diary on multiple occasions. It consisted mainly of Dora the Explorer and heart-shaped stickers =P
You won't find many guys like me...
I value love and happiness more than partying. I think intelligence and character is something to be proud of. I don't act like an idiot, nor do I think it's cool to do so. Maybe that's because of how I was raised. Maybe it's because I grew up in a house full of sisters, with a selfless, loving mother who I can never repay for all she's sacrificed and a father who never gets enough credit for being an amazing man. Maybe it's a combination of things, some good and plenty bad, that shaped me into who I am. I understand that most men are moronic jerks who think about nothing but sex and have no class or integrity. They come a dime a dozen, almost like clones of each other. That's why, unfortunately, when you browse through their profiles on this site, you think they all seem the same.
Now let me tell you about some women...
Maybe finding a party girl is fine for a party guy, but not for me. I want a girl who is beautiful, not just hot. A girl with emotional depth who understands there's more to life than "looking to have fun." Why not look for security and peace, or to make a special connection, a friendship, or whatever? Find a person who makes you feel complete whom you know would be there for you in your darkest hour. I've had plenty of dark moments in my life and I guarantee a "fun woman" wouldn't be too helpful at those times. So why would I waste my time with them?
The problem comes from the fact that most women have encountered too many jerkish men. Now those women are hurt and bitter, unwilling or unable to recognize a quality guy when he is right in front of them. Similarly, a jerkish guy, as annoying as he may be, becomes what the girl is used to. It's comfortable because it's familiar. So if a nice guy comes into the picture, what happens? The girl runs. She doesn't know what to make of it. She thinks he is playing games, or that it's an act. When did being a cheater or selfish liar become the norm? Well I'm real. I know who I am and who I am not.
I love the people I care about very deeply and I naturally want to feel that in return.
I am sensitive and compassionate and look for the same traits in others. You have to open your mind and heart up to more than yourself.