Hello. My name is Victoria. I love my kids, my job and my truck, lol. I am 5'6 and 140lbs. I work every weekend (have weekdays free). If I could underline and bold this then I would. I plan my day trips and outings on weekdays. I don't like motorcycles.
This part of my profile I have put a lot of thought into....... I did just drastically change it but feel the change is needed. I am not looking to commit immediately.
I am freshly out of a three year relationship that last two and a half years too long. I can honestly say at this moment I am happy to be single and free. No one to answer to - no one that has to argue - no stress. I feel alive again and so very happy with my life. Everyone in my house is happier, lol. Right now I do not want to jump into a relationship. I am looking for friends - someone to hang out with without the stress, ties, or strings. I can already guess what you are thinking and the answer is "no". I am not looking for a one night stand and will not jump straight into bed with someone. Sex, relationships and happily ever after could occur at some point but it is not going to happen right away.
For those of you still reading....... I will let you know the qualities I am looking for (or not looking for) in a "friend". Feel free to back out of my profile at any time.
If you want to be a candidate for sex, relationship, etc in the future then attraction is important. I prefer men that are at least 5'10 or taller. I do have a weakness for Hispanic men. There is something about those dark brown eyes, lol. I am open to other races, though. Please be local to Sacramento.
I do not do drugs and am not interested in someone that does.
I am not interested in men that are controlling or verbally, mentally or physically abusive. If it makes you feel like a bigger, better person to constantly put others down or throw things at the back of their heads then please back out and continue your search elsewhere.
If you consider (and call) yourself the king and think of everyone else as your loyal subjects - then I have no desire to meet you.
I like having my personal space and will give you yours. As long as everyone is honest there shouldn't be a problem with that. If you feel the need to lie then you also need to feel the need to be gone. I cannot stress enough how important honesty is to me.
Work history. I understand the economy sucks right now and a lot of people are unemployed. I won't hold that against you as long as you have worked regularly in the past and are looking for work now. If your work history consists of working two months, getting fired, taking the next 14 months off, run out of unemployment, get job, get fired after a month or two, another year off, (repeat) I am very much NOT interested.
Respect. I am a person that will show respect. I think before I speak and even if something is true often will not say it because I do think of the consequences. I think of the effect it will have on the other person. I am not a person to forgive and forget. If you are disrespectful to me you had better make damn sure you are done with me because I will be done with you.
I doubt too many have made it this far but if you have I will now tell you a little more about me. I am honest, strong, independent, quiet and shy at first, low maintenance, respectful and very sexual. My family and business are very important to me and will always come first. I am a very simple person, l do not need a lot or all of the fanciest stuff. I am more comfortable in jeans and a tank top but can dress up when needed. My house could be cleaner but I have seen WAY worse. This doesn't mean that I don't clean. I just have magical reappearing objects in my house and everything does not have it's own place. I don't want, need or like drama. And lastly, in a moment of honesty...... I am 40 years old and have NEVER been in a bar or club. That should tell you something about me. (I have a bottle of rum under my desk right now, lol. Haven't opened it in a month, but it is there.) There are much better ways to spend an evening than being out partying all night :)
If you had asked me 5 years ago where I thought I would be now I would have told you happily settled down and married to a good man. I have no idea as of now where I will be in another 5 years. You never know .......
Initially I was looking for happily ever after but someone changed my thoughts and feelings. Maybe there is someone out there that could show me it really could exist?
I would rather meet first in a low key place to see if there is an attraction or spark before setting up a date.
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